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why does it hurt when i have sex?

it really hurts when me and my bf have sex, we have only been doing it for about 1 or 2 weeks and my hymen has only broke the last time we did it but it has only started to hurt after the 2nd time we done it, after woods i can hardly walk and it is very painful when i pee.... i also think that my gouch tears a little bit when he inserts, we do use a condom with the correct lube. we haven't done it for about 2 days now and i really want to know why it happens.
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First Helper WildOne98
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replied December 20th, 2010
Hello,
Welcome to the ehealthforum and I am really glad to help you out. To me it appears a psychological problem rather than a medical one. It looks like that you are having vaginismus. It is a condition where there is involuntary tightness of the vagina during attempted intercourse.

The tightness is actually caused by involuntary contractions of the pelvic floor muscles surrounding the vagina. Treatment involves extensive therapy that combines education, counseling, and behavioral exercises. I would suggest you to consult a gynecologist and get other causes of dyspareunia also ruled out.

Also talk to your partner openly about any apprehensions and consult a counselor for any relationship issues. It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care.




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replied November 10th, 2011
It hurts when I have sex?
When me and my husband have sex it hurts. I'm not sure why it hurts. It started about two months. It starts to hurt when we begun and at the end
.. I don't have any disease. Help what is wrong?
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replied November 17th, 2011
im not a doc or anything but i belive there is a physcological problem you can hav u need to go speak to your gp as they can refer you to specialist that will be alble to help
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replied July 24th, 2012
It hurts..
Me & my bf have been having sex for about a year & it still hurts at first he has to finger me first or it won't go in & we can only go one time. After we are done always swells up. I don't get it .
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