I am stuck with a stressed out situation and need some help! I had sex with 2 different guys on the dates of December 9th (MY EX unprotected) and DEC. 14th (CASUAL FRIEND- who I used a condom with). My period came on the Dec 8th but the guy I had sex with on the 9th- (my ex) we already share a child together, we have had sex lots of times while I was on my period... I am now pregnant and due on September 15th. The timing is just not adding up to me for neither guy... Who can be the father? My friend or my ex?
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replied May 14th, 2012
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You are quite right that the dates does not make sense.

Did you have sex only those two times in December? How and when was your due date determined?

It will Beverly unlikely that you could have gotten pregnant with your casual friend when he used a condom. If you followed common sense and one of you made sure the condom did not break, he did not get you pregnant.

There are a few times in your life that you will ovulate more than once in a cycle. For that reason, unprotected periodsex is very safe, but not 100% safe.

Since these dates are so messed up, I think that you will have to have a paternaty test done to make sure.
Best of luck!
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replied May 15th, 2012
Thanks for ur response! I was actually having sex with my ex the whole time, from October 31st all the way up to December. We had sex twice in December and my casual was only once and he is absolutely sure that the condom did not break.... Because of when the due date is- is what is confusing me... I would hate for my friend to be the father of my new baby.... This will be so much drama!
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replied May 16th, 2012
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Lol, don't know how 'be likely' came out as 'Beverly' in my post. Stupid typo and auto correction probably.

Anyways, if he used a condom, he is not the father. That is why we use condoms.

Your due date indicates ovulation on Dec 24, so sex between Dec 19 and Dec 25 got you pregnant. That is why your dates does not make sense and why I asked about other sex in December.

Perhaps if you say how your due date was determined, and when, we can make sense of why that date is so far off from the days you had sex. Not all ways are accurate, and some more than others.

If we just look at dates, your friend is most likely to be the father, but then he used a condom.... So nothing makes sense. It is as if you are missing a sexual encounter around Dec 20/21/22. Are you sure what you got on Dec 8 was your period? Normal PMS and normal flow pattern? Was it at the expected time?
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replied May 16th, 2012
That I cannot remember, the flow- the time... I just knew that it came and I recorded it... I use the "MY DAYS" app so I am usually on top of this stuff... For some reason my last period is out of my mind as blank as can be... But thank you for your response and help! I will try to give my friend a paternity test first and see what the outcome can be!
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