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my last period was the 7th of aug, 08 nd lasted till about the 13th. i recently had sex the 25th. my boyfriend and i used a condom nd we found no leaks or breaks in it after sex, but he ejaculated not knowing it and started to get soft and he came out not knowing it. when i say came out i mean him and the condom. the condom didnt slip off. but it did rise up a bit. we saw no sign of any sperm that could have leaked but anyway i was just wondering if it was likely for me to get pregnant with these conditions. my cycles are roughly 28 days apart and last about 7 days in lenght .PLEASE HELP!!!!!
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replied August 28th, 2008
it is now the 28th and i am experiencing some lower back pain but id think it would be way to soon to feel anything due to preg. hopefully it is pms cause my next period is due the 4th of sep one week from today. any thoughts?
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replied August 28th, 2008
Especially eHealthy
Don't worry until your period is late. It is unlikely you are pregnant.
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replied August 28th, 2008
its hard not to worry though. this has happened befor to me and all the worring made my period 2 weeks late.
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replied August 28th, 2008
Especially eHealthy
It is hard not to worry. If you want to double up on your birth control, you can take birth control pills AND use condoms. Or use spermicide AND condoms. Diaphragm AND spermicide AND condoms. These would lesson your risk of pregnancy if the condom happened to fail.
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replied August 28th, 2008
thats true i would like to get on birth control but i am 15, is there anyway i could get it without parent permission.Anyway there is no way i can go through another month of this again so im gonning to just not have anymore sex until im mature enough to handle the consequences on my own.
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replied August 28th, 2008
uio wrote:
thats true i would like to get on birth control but i am 15, is there anyway i could get it without parent permission.Anyway there is no way i can go through another month of this again so im gonning to just not have anymore sex until im mature enough to handle the consequences on my own.


hun i know exactly what your going thru, and i'm going thru it now, but if the condom didn't break it is very unlikely you are pregnant

just try to relax so your period will come on time! go shopping, get a pedicure, do something fun to take your mind off of the situation!

you could always go to planned parenthood or another women's clinic in your area for birth control (they'll let you know all your options), they won't tell your parents!
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replied July 21st, 2012
I'm late but i used a condom
I'm 15 now and I'm freaking out I'm 5 days late.I had sex around the 20th and its now the 21st of the next month. My period comes normally around 13 or sometimes the 16th , I have experienced a late period before I was sexually active which happened on the 22nd. When my boyfriend and I had sex we used a condom and it didn't break but even knowing that I'm still worried. Everytime I get camps I get worried again and impatient and then it just goes. I think its cause i'm worried.
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replied August 28th, 2008
no matter what i do the thought is in the back of my mind im like possesed ugh.
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replied August 28th, 2008
hun, trust me i understand! my period is now 6 days late and i'm goint insane but it's like no matter what I CANNOT stop thinking if i'm pregnant. but i just don't feel pregnant!

commen EARLY pregnancy symptoms are extreme fatigure, breast tenderness and breast and nipple pain, frequent urination, and nausea as well with others. but these symptoms don't usually appear until after your missed period!

i hope you feel better!
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replied August 28th, 2008
well hopefully my period will come and all will be good, i just am so dissapointed with myself ive been through this once befor and sworn i wouldnt put myself through this again.
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replied August 28th, 2008
aw i'm sorry hun! is this only the second time you've had sex? sex can also sometimes cause missed or late periods and stress definately can!

is there any way you can go to a clinic so they can go over your options with you as in getting birth control so you dont have to worry?
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replied August 28th, 2008
oh no ive had sex more than two times but it was on my period so i didnt worry but i was dumb then too cause it was unprotected but idk i wasnt worried at all and it came right on time. but i think my best bet is to rerain from sex for a lil bit cus im such a worrier id prob still worry even on bc. and my boyfriend is turning 18 in a couple months so thats a whole other story.
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replied August 28th, 2008
it's okay to be with an older man, it's nothing to worry about it's a personal choice so don't beat yourself up over it!

if you need someone to talk to PM me =)
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replied August 28th, 2008
oh i dont regret being with him i love him to death but he got me preg. while i was still under 18 and he was over it could be a legal issue
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replied August 28th, 2008
Especially eHealthy
uio, you can go to planned parenthood and your parents never have to know you went there. Birth control would be either very cheap or free for you.

They also give FREE pregnancy testing.
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replied August 28th, 2008
well i think after this i will not have sex 4 a while
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replied May 30th, 2009
hey i'm going through the same thing, it's so relieving to know i'm not alone! I really enjoy sex but I worry so much after that it makes me think it's not worth it! I can't get on birth control because I don't know how to get it and I'm sure my mom would notice if my period stopped. I'm still waiting for my period after we had sex, it's irregular so I don't actually know when it is supposed to come so that's even more stressful. I'm doing my best to calm down, but it's hard like you said!
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replied May 30th, 2009
HI serena04 its been about a year since i have returned to this topic, over the past year i have got on birthcontrol. besides preg prevention birth control is used for many more cases, like irregular periods and cramps and even acne. so if you are worried your mom will say no you can tell her its for one of those things. Im on yaz now and it works really great for memy acne cleared and im not as worried and i can actually enjoy sex with my partner (same guy) If you dont even want your parents to know at all you can go to planned parent hood or a teen clinic around you.
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replied July 4th, 2009
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OK i got one for you all. last period was april 20/21 i dont know if it was a full one our not but had sex protected on may 20 with is the day before my period is due. took a test and 4days pregant with twins at that.i got a lot to say about the situation but i just want to see what you thing abou this?
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replied October 1st, 2009
just feel free and do ur thing, if u get pregnant...good, u have d baby thats the essence of sex odawise stay off sex. But how can u be having sex at 15? Ds world is strange!
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