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I've been thinking about this probably too much.

Here's my story.

I met my soon-to-be husband (July 18th, 2008) on July 18th, 2000. I lost my virginity at 16 and he did as well. We used condoms and I started on the pill a few months after losing my virginity. After being together for two years, we stopped using condoms. A little while after that, I stopped using the Pill.

Since the age of 18, he has been ejaculating inside of me sometimes 1-3 times a week. I am 23 now, almost 24.

Not being on the pill, not using condoms, and having a half sister with endometriosis that almost died giving birth to her 2 lb daughter and having a grandma on my dad's side with ovarian cancer, should I finally get checked out to see if it's me?

Could it be him?

I am not a drug user and neither is he. I used to drink pretty hard when I was 21-22 but that's about the extent of any ill behavior. My periods generally come and go as they please and last for three days (four at the most) and are extremely heavy. It seems the date of getting my period ends up 3-5 days before I expect it.

I've always been stubborn about seeing the doctor because I am so afraid of knowing the truth. I will see the doctor very soon but I just wanted to see if any of you had any advice or the same dilemma.

Is this normal or not? Please let me know. I just wanted to get this out in between wedding planning and school work.
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replied June 24th, 2008
definately if its been over a year with unprotected sex and no pregnancy you need to see your doctor. 89% of people will get pregnant in the first year of unprotected intercourse. I don't think its usual but don't freak out. There is so much modern medicine out there if there is a problem it can probably be fixed. You may not be ovulating regularly. I have no idea what your cycles are like so its hard to say. Good luck!
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replied August 19th, 2008
am i still fertile or not?
I am 32 years old, I have a 14 year old, and a 10 year old daughter. a couple years after my 10 yr old was born i got pregnant from a rape(i terminated that pregnancy), i just couldnt handle that. About 6 yrs ago i got pregnant 2 more times and they both ended in miscarriage. Now, Ive been having unprotected sex with my fiance for 4 years and havent gotten pregnant. about 2 years ago i had to have an ovary removed( the docs all reassured me that it wouldnt interfere with conceiving a child), so about a year ago we decided to try and have a child together. (my girls are from my ex husband)(he also has2 children from his ex wife) And nothing. Ive been calculating ovulation, my periods are regular, and nothing?? Is it possible that because of the mc, abrtn, and one ovary that I am now infertile? We cant afford fertility treatments, does anyone have any suggestions, or maybe words of wisdom for us??
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replied September 23rd, 2010
just a question
im not using condoms for like a year but i havent gotten pregnant how come,maybe because my intercourse is to small or maybe im not ovulating right,ive been with my boyfriend like 1 year about to be two in december 25th 2010 what do you guys think ?
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replied November 9th, 2010
what should i do?
me and my bf have been together for 2yrs nd 6mnfhs into the relationship i got pregnant but miscarried 3mnths into the pregnancy. we have been trying to get pregnant for about 4 months now and still
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