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troubled girl..2 abortions..& scared another on the way..

Im 19 years old..i had abortion when i was 17 with my boyfriend from 4 years..i decided to have it because i was too young, wanted to finish school, and felt like i was to immature to take care of a child..well me and him broke up..then shamefully, i had another at 19..about 3 months ago,this 2nd pregnancy was due to a boyfriend that pretty much just stopped talking to me, and right after he stopped talking to me i got pregnant and couldnt get ahold of him..since then ive been very cautious..im scared of being pregnant, so about 4 days ago i went out..got drunk and made stupid decisions. I wore a condom..but im scared im pregnant..its the 28th of july and i should be starting my period in no time..but im scared that im not going to..im so ashamed in myself. these past 3 months since the abortion ive really gotten my life together, havent gone out and partied besides that one night, i have a job, im the process of joining the navy. and if i am pregnant..i feel like almost 70 percent of me wants another abortion..i just need some advice..someone to tell me something thats experienced something like this..please..help.
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replied November 23rd, 2011
Do not know if this advice still will help or if your pregnant or if you decide for abortion, I will tell you not to bring your life more anguish, Abortion NO for option!!!, In my experience it is very difficult to make a choice when this happens, but seriously there are organizations that can help you, I was near to get an abortion and I did not know until one of my friends who used to be my enemy told me about this. Find the way where we can feel better about ourselves and giving the baby a chance at life, plus if you feel ashamed to be pregnant, they move out of state during pregnancy and they cover the expenses. write me think about it! Wish you the best!
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