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I have been married for 7 years. My husband had the gastric sleeve surgery almost 2 years ago. He has always drank and his dad drinks until completely drunk anytime he can. When my husband drinks he tells me all of the things that he hates about me and I always end up crying and apologizing to him to keep him from taking it to the next level. The next morning he is always so sorry and he tells me he loves me so much. Tonight my husband got drunk with his dad and friends and on the way home he was yelling at me and said he was done and got out of the truck and started walking. He is our only income while I am in nursing school and I love him so much. I dont want to lose him but i dont know what to say to make him stop. I cant keep him from his dad and that's the last thing I'd ever want to do. I recorded him screaming at me tonight so he can see why I get so scared. What are some things I can do to better our relationship? He's an amazing guy that cant stop at 1 beer.

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replied July 12th, 2018
Troubled and Abusive Relationships Answer A64165
Thank you for asking at Ehealth forum!

I read your question and I understand your concern.
Abstinence from heavy drinking is the best way.
You can also consult psychiatrist.
I hope it helps. Stay in touch with your healthcare provider for further guidance as our answers are just for education and counselling purposes and cannot be an alternative to actual visit to a doctor.
Take care

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