From what I have read, you have made attempts to get in touch with him, yet he refuses to talk to you. So, on this note, you have tried to contact him. It only goes to show how is responding, meaning, he wants nothing more to do with you........so....if you were to tell him you are pregnant, would you want him to come back, have a miserable life, knowing the only reason he was there was be cause of this baby? Or, go on a as you have before and have a happy life, raise your child. Once your child is old enough to want to know who their father is.....find him and then "show and tell". theres gonna be al lot of people who will disagree with this, sating the father has every right to know....well that father was contacted to try to inform him, yet he wants no responsibility form the Mother....what would make it any different knowing about a child. on even another note......he did take part in producing this child and you may need financial help...if he signs birth certificate or can be proved to be the father, child support should be in order....I was from a divorced home and its *** on a kid.........I'd much rather been raised by Mother alone to see the *** she put up with while trying to raise me and my two brothers....she and Dad were miserable in the same home.....Just something for you to think about!