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replied May 6th, 2007
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that sucks that things are going sh!tty for you at the moment. there is nothing worse than your baby being ill Crying or Very sad i had alot of ear infections as a child too and i used to get earache and tooth ache with them. keep a watch out to see if he cries in pain as he may get ear/tooth ache with it.

chris seems like he doesn't really know how to look after a sick child. has he screwed up like that before? maybe he just didn't realise....

your hair sounds nice to me but hey i'm goth so i lurve purple hair Wink any pics? your hair has a naturally red tint in it (if i'm correct) so you might need to go for a cool tone? Confused did you use permenant?

how did things go with tommy? if it were me i'd take it really slow and pretend like you're not really interested. it keeps them on their toes and they want you even more Laughing
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aww im sorry braydens haveing problems, ear tubes arent all that bad though, my little brother had 2 rounds of them

he actualy can still go swimming just he wont be able to put his head under water or get splashed...maybe your doctor can give you come ear plugs made to keep teh water out? i know they did that for my brother on the second round....what kind of thyroid disease does he have, if you dont mind me asking, it really does suck when kids have so many medical problems, i know i was one of those kids who was in and out of the hospital so much most of my first memories are of hospitals, bleh

if anyone ever did something like that with my child, they would be in so much pain, i could see it if he had to run out soewhere quick, then yeah of course you take the kid butto have him outside with no shirt or anything, thats just asking to get sicker and you told him not to do it....bleh whats wrong with men

your hair does sound kinda cool though...but then again ive dyed my hair electric blue before so i guess i would like that lol

i hope things get better soon though, i know we dont really know eachother, but if you ever need anyone to talk to im here for you and brayden *hugs*

~alicia~
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Idony wrote:
aww im sorry braydens haveing problems, ear tubes arent all that bad though, my little brother had 2 rounds of them

he actualy can still go swimming just he wont be able to put his head under water or get splashed...maybe your doctor can give you come ear plugs made to keep teh water out? i know they did that for my brother on the second round....what kind of thyroid disease does he have, if you dont mind me asking, it really does suck when kids have so many medical problems, i know i was one of those kids who was in and out of the hospital so much most of my first memories are of hospitals, bleh

if anyone ever did something like that with my child, they would be in so much pain, i could see it if he had to run out soewhere quick, then yeah of course you take the kid butto have him outside with no shirt or anything, thats just asking to get sicker and you told him not to do it....bleh whats wrong with men

your hair does sound kinda cool though...but then again ive dyed my hair electric blue before so i guess i would like that lol

i hope things get better soon though, i know we dont really know eachother, but if you ever need anyone to talk to im here for you and brayden *hugs*

~alicia~


Thanks girl!! I'm for sure gonna get some ear plugs for him then. It just sucks that he has all this crap wrong with him & him being a baby makes it so much worse. And he's sooooooooo grouchy I can't get anything done. Thank god i'm done with school for my summer break or else i'd be so far behind.

So yeah i'll post a pic now.



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aw i think the colour really suits you! i hope things start looking up for you soon d. you deserve it. it can be damn hard being a single mum Shocked
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d i think it looks great! i think in a week or two it'll fade a little bit so it's not as dark and maybe you'll like it a little more then, but i think it looks great on you!
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I am soooooo sorry that .Brayden is having soo many health issues! Do they have his thyroid problem under some control? My nephew had both of his ears done with tubes in them many years ago and it seemed to help him. It is so sad when baby's are sick alot, I am glad he is going to an .E.N.T.
Your hair looks great!
We are here for you anytime you need to talk or just vent!
I agree with .Beckster, being a single .Mom is not easy!
Hugz!
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replied May 7th, 2007
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DaliciaLovesYou wrote:
So yeah I don't really post on here very much so I thought I would make a little update for those of you who are wondering cause i've been getting some worried messages haha!

Brayden has 2 ear infections yet again....I took him to the doctor a couple days ago and she said since this has been going on for months and months (even when he never goes outside in the wind or gets his hair wet) she is going to send him to a ear nose and throat specialist and he'll have to get tubes in his ears, which will last like 3 years (?) He can't go swimming, get his ears wet....nothing! he has to be put to sleep for it too. I am so stressed out guys, I feel so bad for him because he has all this crap wrong with him, the thyroid disease and crap. He's only just a baby, why is this happening to him? I don't get it....I just wanna bawl my head off. =(

Apart from that I dyed my hair and it's the first time i've dyed it since before I was pregnant, and i wanted it to be a darker brown....and well in the light its a weird red tint and in the dark it looks basically purple! =\ I am never dying my hair again...

Anddddddddd, I am so mad at chris. I don't even wanna talk to him anymore. I am so effing pissed... Tommy and I went out to dinner tonight and I trusted chris with brayden and left brayden at his house for a couple hours....Well chris knows about his ear infections and etc...my mom wanted to keep brayden at her house and when she arrived at his apartment he had brayden outside with his shirt off on this windy day when i specifically told him .d.o. .n.o.t. take my son outside. Is he too stupid for common sense? uh hello.... You don't take a child outside on a windy day when they have an ear infection in both ears you !**@! idiotic loser.

I am pissed at the world, so i'm sorry if i've been rude to any of you lately. =( I guess this can pretty much be called the biggest rant ever.


Hey Dalicia,

I just wanted to let you know that I have had the tubes (Gromets?) before, well 3 times actually! They will probably only last about 2 years and they dont hurt at all, even when they fall out, You really cant even feel them! The tubes are about the size of a grain of rice, when they say tubes you think they will be .H.U.G.E! but yeah as I said they are about the size of a grain of rice! When I had them I got specially made ear plugs, like they were moulded to my ear. The worst part of the whole getting Gromets is the anasetic! (sp?)
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I love that hair color! After I'm done with the whole ttc and pregnancy thing that is the color I want to die my hair! It looks really good with green shades of eye shadow. imo.

Both I and my sister have had tubes in our ears. It is a pain on the parents side by making sure they dont get thier ears wet. Which mean taking extra care when washing/rinsing their hair. The hardest part for us is, living in fl, was not being able to swim under water. My sister had hers in for 5 years. But it was definitely for the best. They took my tubes out and since then I have had my left ear drum rupture twice and my right rupture once. So the tubes were really for the best! It gets better with age though. I have only had a handlfull since then, and now I'm old enough to tell long before they get severe, and my dr takes them very seriously. Poor little guy, I hope he's feeling better soon!
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First off,I freakin love your hair! thats how I want mine but the dumb b|tch at walmart had to mess it all up! I think your hair looks nice that color.

poor brayden,I feel so bad for him.My neice had to have tubes in her ears too and when my aunt gave her a bath she put silly putty in them so no water would get in and it worked very well.Chris is not so smart eh?most guys doint think about sh|t like that.they (some) have no prental brain cells in their head Rolling Eyes

I hope everything goes well with him .D!

why do men have to be so damn confusing! they think we're complicated when really all they have to do is think and know what they want and not think they can have you and other girls at the same time.that is freakin nasty and I think your doing the right thinkg by not kissing and holdin ghands with him until your actually together.It sounds like he's tryingt o make himself not like you,but its not working for him Cool Laughing
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d you are def a milf girl... your hair suits you sorry about bray.my son has had them 2 in the last 3 years and he is doing much better with them and he swims as well he is only 4 we just put in his molded plugs and other times we just put on a swim cap it works just as well good luck hun.
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i get those moments.... Laughing
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i'm sorry about things being crappy. and poor brayden, i hope his ears get better, poor little lamb!

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replied May 8th, 2007
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DaliciaLovesYou wrote:

Mel, I seriously think thats what tommy is trying to do.....but last night I told him I wanted to be friends, and if were gonna be friends theres gonna be no kissing or holding hands! He was like "why does there have to be a title for us" and i said
I would have been like,"ok,well are you a player?because this is not how someone acts when they want to be with someone".ask him what his problem is,what the holdup is.ask him if those few little problems (that can be fixed) are whats holding him back from being happy with you and if so tell him you'l work on it.He cannot have his cake and eat it to.be careful though with him,I know you like him more everytime you see him but keep your guard up!

DaliciaLovesYou wrote:

So i guess were just friends...but if thats the case i dont even wanna see him in person anymore. I want to be with him though and i've made that very clear...and It bothers him that i wont kiss or hold hands or anything like that with him anymore, especially have sex unless were together. I even told him last night to find another girl to do stuff with and he was like "i want you though" so I have no clue whats going on!!
like I said,he can't have his cake and eat it too.It's like he wants you but he still wants his freedom.Whats so bad about being tied down?

DaliciaLovesYou wrote:
And, i have my hair layered like 3 different lengths but my hair is sooooo long now i need it trimmed and cut again. I always go to this one lady named Bonnie! she's the greatest for real.
I wanna go to your hair dresser! lol I love your hair that way but no one can ever cut it the exact way I want it done.

cheer up dalicia,things are fine for you in every other way right?everything else will fall into place!!
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