Well I am now ten weeks along, only two more to go befroe the second trimester. Alot has been happening though. I have been completely stressed out. I left my hubby. Now I live with myp arents. I drive hour and a half to and from work so all together 3 hrs for a measely 7.30 an hour at a dead end job, I am getting home at 12 am and getting up at 6 am. I cant find a house or apartment I can afford to live in near my job because I cant get any hellp, and no one will let me in because I dont have any children yet. I have been exhausted and sore from my job, that all I do is eat, sleep and come home and go to work. I havent had any social intereaction in a while. I am starting to get depression because my family does not support from pregnancy. So far I have gone to all of my appointments alone. I am spending my whole pay check on food and gas for getting to work. On my days off all I do is sleep because I am so wiped out from not getting hardly any sleep during the days I work. My job treats me like crap. The doctor treats me awful. I cant get her to listen to me for more than five minutes, but Im considering switching, the problem is I would still have to travel further to see another doc, which is three hours away, but they are so much more equppied and nicer. I feel alone and nobody wants to help or heari t. Not even the doctor, my husband, mother, or friends. On top of that, my husband and I split and he has been threatening to take full custody when this kid is born and he has been completely awful towards me. Crying or Very sad
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replied February 21st, 2007
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Yikes, I'm sorry you're going through all that.
As for a job, it almost sounds like it's costing you to work there. Isn't there something in your neighborhood, or at least closer? Even if you took a bit of a pay cut, working closer might really benefit you.
Good luck
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replied February 21st, 2007
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I Wish I Could
I wish I could quit my job but my parents said if I want to liveh ere I hasve to keeep it. They said you cant just give up anytime someything doesnt go your way. It has been so bad. Im not allowed to take naps because my mother throws a fit, so at night at work I am dragging, but I always getm y work done before anyone else. I even help others with their work, and I still dont get what I deserve form my job! But at the end of the night because Im on my feet lifting stuff all day I am sore and I just feelike like collapsing. I did have morning sickness pretty bnad for a month, with the flu on top of that. Still no one helped me. I want to go back to college and get my BA , but it is hard when the college is in the opposite direction of my job, it is two hours out of the way.
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replied February 21st, 2007
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i'm sorry you're having such a hard time.

i hope i don't sound rude when i say what .i'm about to say, because i really don't mean it in a rude or mean way.. but things aren't going to get better unless you do something about your situation. it won't be easy, but you've got to do something. find a different job, preferably closer to the doctor you'd like to start going to. find a cheap apartment, or find a roommate to live with for a while. living with your parents does not seem like an option, & it seems really strange that your mom won't even let you take a nap.. Confused .you've gotta think about your baby & what's best for him/her. do whatever it takes.

.how old are you?
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replied February 21st, 2007
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arcadia wrote:
i'm sorry you're having such a hard time.

i hope i don't sound rude when i say what .i'm about to say, because i really don't mean it in a rude or mean way.. but things aren't going to get better unless you do something about your situation. it won't be easy, but you've got to do something. find a different job, preferably closer to the doctor you'd like to start going to. find a cheap apartment, or find a roommate to live with for a while. living with your parents does not seem like an option, & it seems really strange that your mom won't even let you take a nap.. Confused .you've gotta think about your baby & what's best for him/her. do whatever it takes.

.how old are you?
I agree with arcadia.Your in a tough sopt right now but the only person who can get you out,is *you*.good luck with things girl!
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replied February 23rd, 2007
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Welll...
I got back with my husband because the split was over something stupid.
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replied February 23rd, 2007
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Re: Welll...
pumpkine0011 wrote:
I got back with my husband because the split was over something stupid.
if you don't mind me being nosy,what was the split for?
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replied February 23rd, 2007
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Wellll...
It was because I was really sick with morning sickness and the flu. I hadnt gone to work in a week and I couldnt get out of bed or anything. my husband left me at home by myself to go play the playstation w/ people i dont even know. But it was stupid what we both did.
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replied February 23rd, 2007
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Re: 10 Wks!!!!
pumpkine0011 wrote:
Well I am now ten weeks along, only two more to go befroe the second trimester. Alot has been happening though. I have been completely stressed out. I left my hubby. Now I live with myp arents. I drive hour and a half to and from work so all together 3 hrs for a measely 7.30 an hour at a dead end job, I am getting home at 12 am and getting up at 6 am. I cant find a house or apartment I can afford to live in near my job because I cant get any hellp, and no one will let me in because I dont have any children yet. I have been exhausted and sore from my job, that all I do is eat, sleep and come home and go to work. I havent had any social intereaction in a while. I am starting to get depression because my family does not support from pregnancy. So far I have gone to all of my appointments alone. I am spending my whole pay check on food and gas for getting to work. On my days off all I do is sleep because I am so wiped out from not getting hardly any sleep during the days I work. My job treats me like crap. The doctor treats me awful. I cant get her to listen to me for more than five minutes, but Im considering switching, the problem is I would still have to travel further to see another doc, which is three hours away, but they are so much more equppied and nicer. I feel alone and nobody wants to help or heari t. Not even the doctor, my husband, mother, or friends. On top of that, my husband and I split and he has been threatening to take full custody when this kid is born and he has been completely awful towards me. Crying or Very sad

actually your second tri starts at 14 weeks
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replied February 23rd, 2007
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actually second trimester starts at beginning of 13th week. I know ALOT of pregnancy info. And I am at the end of tenth week almost so just two weeks left.
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replied February 23rd, 2007
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pumpkine0011 wrote:
actually second trimester starts at beginning of 13th week. I know ALOT of pregnancy info. And I am at the end of tenth week almost so just two weeks left.



I'm glad you know alot like alot of us here as well ...your going by fetal age and not gestational..thats fine...the true end of the 1st tri is at 14 weeks.
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