Well its offical af is gone and dh and I are giving it our best shot for this one last time. I know we haven't been trying for very long (since .Aug) but dh isn't doing so well in the health department and I don't know whats going to happen in the near future soo...

Well anyway baby dust everyone hope this is our month*******

~amber nicole
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replied January 29th, 2007
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Amber, i'm sorry to hear hubby is not getting better. Sending alll the baby dust your way *******************.D.U.S.T***********

do u think his illness could be a reason you guys are having probs?? I don't know if you mentioned it before but what is wrong with him, if I may ask??
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replied January 29th, 2007
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Yes, .I do think its affecting us ttc but in a diffrent way than you would expect. I'm stressing out over it (the cancer and ttc) an its causing me not to ovulate (grrr.) dh has cancer but hasn't had to do to many treatments ( only one round of chemo and 15days of radation) the doctors tell us that shouldn't affect his sperm count. But .I just went 115 days with out a period so .I'm pretty shure .I'm the one slowing us down.
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replied January 29th, 2007
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Ah, sorry you're going through a worrying time at the moment. You know, if you stop 'trying', it might just happen when you least expect it! Lots of baby dust to you *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
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replied January 29th, 2007
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Hmmm ,have you had any tests done???
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replied January 29th, 2007
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Nope not yet .I went to my ob in november (the middle of the 115 cd's) and she didn't seem to concerned since .I had just stopped bc in may. I guess at the time .I didn't want to think about it too much so .I didn't push the matter and now.....Well.
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replied January 29th, 2007
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I don't know what to say. It must be so hard to go through all this at once. Just ttc is enough stress with out having to worry about dh at the same time. Confused I'm sorry you're going through all this. I heard if you abstain a while before you ovulate it helps too as it helps his lil men build up and get stronger. My ex and I had unprotected sex for almost 2 yrs constantly and nothing. But I went away for 2 weeks came bcak and got preggo right away.
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replied January 29th, 2007
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Thanks I really do like the support and all of the advice i've gotten on these boards. That is one reason I "hang out" a little on the pregnancy board. Its a "ray of sunshine" to borrow the phrase and helps me focus on the happy end result not the stressful trying. Thanks again.
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