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January 19th, 2007
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I can usually get it down to two, three tops unless one of them has had a *~*poop all over my body*~* type day.

Man I hate it when it goes up their back.. *gag*
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replied January 19th, 2007
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emma2 wrote:
im so confused about you.....One day you have intimacy issues ..The next day you want another child....Now you say you cant handle having one with your life....You need to figure out what your underlying issues are and it start with you ...Good luck


don't take this the wrong way, but I can have more than one issue at a time.. I mean, can't i? Sorry, but I have a lot of problems with my life, a lot more than i'm mentioning on a forum. I do have intimacy issues, and I thought somebody might be able to relate... Obviously not. I've been thinking lately about whether or not I wanted to have another child, right now.. I thought i'd ask in a forum, & I did - but after thinking things through and comparing a day with jayden and acting as if I had another baby (a newborn), I realized that there were more cons than pros. I'm not ready for a baby, and i'm proud of myself for being honest with myself and realizing that. Also, for not thinking before acting. Like I said, after thinking about all that and realizing a few things.. My fiance came up and posed another question that I thought you all would be able to help me with... Which you all did, and I greatly appreciate it!!
Thanks, much!!

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october 05' mommy!
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replied January 19th, 2007
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rainfire1424 wrote:
i can usually get it down to two, three tops unless one of them has had a *~*poop all over my body*~* type day.


Man I hate it when it goes up their back.. *gag*

i remember when my boys use to wake up with poop way up and out of the backs of their diapers ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!
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replied January 19th, 2007
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november_mommy05 wrote:
i had posted a previous question, "should I get pregnant it again?" I already realized they I need to wait, and the biggest reason why posed another question and I thought maybe you ladees could help...


My fiance, I love him death and he truly makes me happy... But he doesn't help me, except financially with our daughter. It never really bothered me, until I was trying to go to school, work, and take care of her. I am in over my head, but I choose not to be on any kind of assitance b/c the way those ppl treat you. I also don't want to live my life off of others, so quitting my job is def. Not an option. Neither is dropping out of school, I need my education to get a better job and more pay. So my only option, is figuring out a way to get him to help me, but to him sleeping & playing world of warcraft is more important than helping me raise **our** daughter! Any advice? Thanks!


P.S. Sorry if I had bad punctiation, or spelling .. I'm in a hurry.



hey hun, I was in your shoes for a while, the past 3 months or so my man would just play warcraft or something like that on the computer and help if I asked him to but not like actually want to be involved, I got sick of nagging him all the time and having him "pause his game" so I sat him down and explained that I need him and landon (my son ) needs him this is our child not mine, and I do my part and he needs to do his otherwise its not going to work and be a success. And it worked, hes awesome now, and I still give him his time to play on the computer so he has his own time for himself sometimes, but to a certain extent. And I get my time aswell, thats really important too..So ya id just tell him exactly wat u need hun! Good luck!
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replied January 20th, 2007
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emma2 wrote:
beckster06 wrote:
if you girls aren't happy with your guys then just dump the losers. Best thing I ever did Smile


beck how long has it been since you ended it? I remmeber when you were complaing about him and then next thing I knew he had a gf! How are you holding up?


we split up at the end of september so it's been nearly 4 months now Shocked

i've been with my new boyfriend for 2 months ad things are going well. I'm really happy and my depression seems to be gettting better Smile
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replied January 24th, 2007
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laura_friesen wrote:
november_mommy05 wrote:
i had posted a previous question, "should I get pregnant it again?" I already realized they I need to wait, and the biggest reason why posed another question and I thought maybe you ladees could help...



My fiance, I love him death and he truly makes me happy... But he doesn't help me, except financially with our daughter. It never really bothered me, until I was trying to go to school, work, and take care of her. I am in over my head, but I choose not to be on any kind of assitance b/c the way those ppl treat you. I also don't want to live my life off of others, so quitting my job is def. Not an option. Neither is dropping out of school, I need my education to get a better job and more pay. So my only option, is figuring out a way to get him to help me, but to him sleeping & playing world of warcraft is more important than helping me raise **our** daughter! Any advice? Thanks!



P.S. Sorry if I had bad punctiation, or spelling .. I'm in a hurry.



hey hun, I was in your shoes for a while, the past 3 months or so my man would just play warcraft or something like that on the computer and help if I asked him to but not like actually want to be involved, I got sick of nagging him all the time and having him "pause his game" so I sat him down and explained that I need him and landon (my son ) needs him this is our child not mine, and I do my part and he needs to do his otherwise its not going to work and be a success. And it worked, hes awesome now, and I still give him his time to play on the computer so he has his own time for himself sometimes, but to a certain extent. And I get my time aswell, thats really important too..So ya id just tell him exactly wat u need hun! Good luck!


hey, thnx a lot!! For some reason, your advice helped me, most of all. I believe it's just the fact that I reallyy don't wanna let him go, and I truly believe that we're met to be. Anywayz, i'm in the process of talking to him about this... So no resolution, as of yet. We just have such busy lives, that we can't have an important conversation and finish it within one sitting. Laughing that's kinda bad, isn't it? Hopefully we can work it through... Thanks, again!!

Love, love~
october *05* mommy!!
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