Please help me I dont know what to think or anything I have so many questions I guess I always thought that something was there but never really sure untill now in looking at porn I descoverd tha ti am really attractied to femals but not as much as I am toward my husband...

Please help me someone
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replied June 22nd, 2006
Some one please talk to me I really need advice I am having a hard time I would llike to know things this is new to me..
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replied July 1st, 2006
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Sorry no one replyed before now...

First off, calm down...

Now, if you belive you are bi but want to stay with your husband then, for the love of god, do not bring a woman into your bedroom! It may be the male "dream" to have two women at once but belive me (and Dr. Drew of loveline) that a 3sum is just bringing chaos into your relationship and it has a high likleyhood of breaking the two of you up!!!

So if you don't want to divorce then keep it to pic's and videos!!

Now let me ask you this:
would it make that much of a diff in your life if you were bi?

Would it "change" who you are either inside or out?

From what I have read 10% of the population of the planet is "gay" and when it comes to men they feel that they need to "choose sides" and say that they are one way or the other but when it comes to women 80% have fanticy's of being with other women at some point in their lives!

I guess it depends on how long you have been having these feelign and if they have interfeared with your relationships in the past.

This might just be a phase or it could just be how you are!~

i think that you should talk to your husband about this. (if he is not a homophobe) try to work it so that the two of you can share some erotica and bring your relationship to a diff levle by bringing some excitemnet into your sex lives!

So I will ask again... If you are or if you are not will it change anything?

Life needs to be flexable! Just go with the flow and see where life takes you!!!

If you have any questions or just want to talk to someone else that is "coming to terms" with all of this then don't hesitate to drop me a p.M.

I try to come to the forum every few days!
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