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I'm Just a Kid, But I'm Addicted to Porn (Page 1)

I watch the most horrible things, yet I adore them... Until afterwards, after i'm washing up, when I realize what I watch, and I feel filthy. I'm a 15 year old girl, no other problems to all eyes, except for this. I could shrug it off, except for the content of what I watch - usually involving rape, and in fantasies I either am raped or am raping someone else. I want it to stop, but I can't go to my mom or my friends... Please, is there anythign I can do?

[put here as well as addiction forum because I need all the help I can get.]
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replied April 4th, 2006
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Porns a problem?!!
Ehh seriously thou, I wouldnt give it much thought, I feel the same way after im done etc but in the end I realized the only reason I feel uncomfortable is kinda because I was told you were sposed to you could say, easiest way to stop I found tho, is to get caught
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replied April 12th, 2006
Getting caught'd screw me over, double time, but I guess that'd help me stop, ne?

I guess it's true, but --- I dunno, it just doesn't seem like it's normal in the least.
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replied April 29th, 2006
I'm a fifteen-year-old girl, too. Hah. I have the same problem, for the most part - but I don't see it as much of a problem as it is a habit. It's not a very bad habit, either. Sexuality is normal for us, and as long as it's not painful - unless you like that kinda' thing - or harmful, I should really say, then don't feel bad about it. A great majority of females masturbate, and read/watch pornography. Don't get so bent out of shape about it. To feel guilty is normal. Hell, I still feel guilty sometimes, but it's just an immediate reflex to what i've done and what the older generation has to say about it.

As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, then embrace the pleasure your body can produce for ya' as much as you like. 'least, that's what I do. Keehee.
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replied October 13th, 2012
I agree! And she shouldn't feel bad about the rape thing. Most girls don't want to be raped whcih by someone they are totally not feeling or attracted to, and usually involves serious beating...we want to be taken agressively by someone we want badly, and we want him to make all the moves, even be a lil rough. It is totally normal
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replied May 1st, 2006
Boy this is a hard post to believe. Either you actually do have this problem or youre what youd eventually fall victim to, a pedophile. I feel the situation is the latter, in which case get out of here, if this is actually true, get out of here and see a pychiatrist, as this could be a very dangerous addiction for a 15 yr old girl. Not to mention dangerous to even talk about this on the internet.
I can't believe, but actually I can, that people are saying this is okay. Porn, okay yeah whatever, masturbation, whatever, but fantasies involving rape, you have a problem. Not that some women dont have that, but not at 15. I think you need help whether or not this whole story is fabricated.
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replied July 31st, 2007
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You are overreacting. Most people masturbate, it's completely normal; and a lot of those people who do masturbate feel guilty about it afterward, i still feel guilty sometimes and im 21 now. The feeling of guilt is because what we have done may be 'nasty' or 'shameful', it's definitely something most of us want to hide, but really it's just natural. If you have fantasies about rape, this could be what turns you on and as long as you don't have actual intentions to go out and rape somebody it can be fine as a fantasy. There are many people out there who enjoy sexual activities where they are submissive or dominant in relation to their partner, this is a normal part of the sexual spectrum. When you are old enough and feel that it's time to have a sexual relationship with somebody else, assuming that you have not started, you can see if your partner is willing to engage in your fantasies as long as you keep it safe! As far as the porn goes, it's fine to watch porn as long as it doesn't take priority over the desire for actual sexual relationships.
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replied August 22nd, 2007
well idk but if u r actally adicted to porn and sex and things like tht you might be a sex addict but then again its sortof normal to do that unless you have a adiction to it
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replied August 22nd, 2007
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i used to feel really horrible after watching porn but now i'm not ashamed of it at all.
It's very natural to watch pornos and there's a good chance that the rape fantasy's has more to do with you wanting to feel badly desired (someone willing to do anything for you e.g to break the law)
than to be violated.

it's healthy to masturbate and watch porn, just try to enjoy it =P
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replied October 18th, 2007
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quicksilver024 wrote:
Boy this is a hard post to believe. Either you actually do have this problem or youre what youd eventually fall victim to, a pedophile. I feel the situation is the latter, in which case get out of here, if this is actually true, get out of here and see a pychiatrist, as this could be a very dangerous addiction for a 15 yr old girl. Not to mention dangerous to even talk about this on the internet.

I can't believe, but actually I can, that people are saying this is okay. Porn, okay yeah whatever, masturbation, whatever, but fantasies involving rape, you have a problem. Not that some women dont have that, but not at 15. I think you need help whether or not this whole story is fabricated.


Holy crap, don't listen to this idiot kage-rod! How he gets that you're inevitably going to turn into a pedophile is beyond me, that's downright stupidity or mental illness.

Many women fantasize about rape, it causes excitement and may represent an underlying control issue. Some women, like yourself, develop sexually faster than the rest. If we actually removed all the taboos and knew about everyone's sexual fantasy's, you'd quickly see how 99% of people fantasize about at least one thing that isn't considered "normal" by society at the superficial level.
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replied October 27th, 2007
It is unbelievable to me that a 15 yr old girl could be hooked on porn! My gosh, what a cheapening unrealistic ideation that victimizes women. Most women Do Not fantasize rape and watch porn. It is concerning that you fantasize raping someone else, especially as a woman. I totally get where one may think you "could" become a pedeophille "IF" you acted on this one day. Actions are first perceived as thoughts.

Find a trusted adult to talk to. It is totally possible for you to be a sex addict. This is a behaviour that ruins relationships and lives. Is it worth that? If you are, there is help available.
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replied October 27th, 2007
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It's an old post, folks. Let it go.
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replied March 1st, 2009
It is really serious to be invovled in porn no matter how old or young you are. The point is that the longer you engage in a habit the harder it is to break. You should talk to someone you trust, your mom, a counsellor, a pastor, someone you trust and who cares about you. Addictions are hard to break without help, find the support and help you need.
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replied March 1st, 2009
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I don't see porn as a problem at all. Even if you're young. i mean the kids today aren't like the kids that were kids at my age society is speeding up and todays kids do what yesterdays adults did. I think it's harmless whatever age you're at. It's only normal for a young girl to be experimenting with her sexuality. She is young and probably hasn't experienced a sexual relationship yet and is curious..
How is porn wrong for an older person. lets say you're not in a relationship for eg. Whats the harm. Don't ppl feel better after sex, whatever type it may be. It releases endorphines which make you feel good. Okay and what about a couple in a relationship. Not everyone has sex as much as they'd like to in a week so then what the harm in watching porn and releases sexual frustration. I just don't see a problem with it at all. ppl make it a problem because masturbation is taboo amongst woman. You don't hear men feeling bad about it so why should woman!
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replied March 1st, 2009
your totally normal. Most girls masturbate but will deny it. If you feel its a proble just do things to keep you busy and you will forget about it
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replied March 1st, 2009
Maybe you should find out about people like Ted Bundy, he became a serial killer through the damaging effects of hard-core porn. If it is something you feel the need to hide it cannot be good. If it makes you feel dirty and wrong, then it isn't good for you. Again go to someone you trust for help and the partnership you may need to get beyond this.
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replied March 1st, 2009
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I don't know. i don't see the harm. I mean R rated porn to me is two ppl just having sex.
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replied March 1st, 2009
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It seems that everyone has missed the pont of the post.

She is not worried about the fact she is watching porn. I think we all know there is no problem with that.

Its the theme in the porn that is the bother. She is turned on by rape porn and then fantasis about being raped or being the raper.

Now my take on this.

Apparently this is normal and not uncommon at all. A lot of us will say that it is not normal and the reason for that is that people do not openly talk about these kind of fantasies.

I guess what you need to think about is whether this is a fantasy or an urge?

If it startes to become an urge then it would be best to seek help. Because who knows how long it takes for an urge to get so strong you need to act.

But for all intents and purposes there is nothing wrong with you.

You have a fetish....nothing more.
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replied March 1st, 2009
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I agree if it's just a fantasy, there's no problem. If you feel like you're going to act this fantasy out and for eg rape someone then it is a problem.
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replied March 1st, 2009
i see nothing wrong with her post. i started watching porn when i was 11, and i am a girl. i actually did not lose my virginity until the age of 24...i am 24 now. this type of thing is more common than people think. this does not mean she is a pedophile, will be attacked by a pedophile or has any mental issues.

im sure quicksilver has some serious skeletons in his/her closet...he who throws the first stones has the most to hideeee. Smile
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replied March 1st, 2009
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I agree totally.

Most of us have our own deep little perverted fantacies. It does not mean we will carry it out.

I always fantasize about running the Olympic 100m final....but I dont believe I will ever do it!!
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