Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now and its still has'nt happend.....Almost everytime we have sex he cums in me. I just wanna know how to get pregnant or if there is something wrong with me.
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replied January 26th, 2006
First of all, how old are you? Secondly, get educated on the topic. They can give you ovulation inducing tablets such as clomid, artificial insemination even ivf if you are truly committed. If you've been trying for more than twelve months a specialist will speak to you and send you for test to establish the problem so they can fix it. Sometimes it's nothing sometimes it's not nothing. If you're serious about the baby thing see someone now rather than later I waited and it took me seven years to realise I needed ivf thanks to blocked (scarred) tubes.

I would suggest though if you're under twenty-four or twenty-five that you get yourself to college so you can take care of the new bub!

Also I wouldn't have a child with someone who was just a boyfriend. Wait till you're married and settled. It's a beautiful time of your life so you don't mess it up!

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replied January 30th, 2006
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I just wanted to tell you that if you have been trying over a year go see your obgyn. It might be something easy you can fix. After 25 your fertility starts to decline. If you are ready to be a mom, the earlier the better. I have pcos (polycystic ovarian syndrome), so I have problems conceiving. We got preg with our son right away, I had him when I was 19. It took us two years to get preg again. But I am preg with #2 and just turned 22. I am a great mother. I am a stay at home mom and my hubby has a great job. I am living proof you don't have to wait until you are 30 to have children. Good luck. Btw, I tried clomid (fertility drug) when I wasn't yet married.
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