My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We we first got together he told me in a couple of years he wanted children. He said he wanted them then too. At that time I didn't so I :cry: shamefully shot his idea down. Now 2 years later I am ready.

How can I tell him about this. I feel like I might scare him for some reason.

Is it normal that he doesn't want to marry? He said it just complicates but then why would he want a baby?

Please, any feedback would be more than welcomed.
Thank you, kk
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replied November 24th, 2005
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Just my opinion so dont take offense but if he doesnt want to get married then maybe he just doesnt want to marry you...I think you deserve someone who cant wait to get married to you.

I was in a similar situation with someone, he didnt want to get married and I was ready... It didnt work out so I am so glad I didnt have children with him. Now I am married to someone so wonderful I thought it wasnt possible for someone this great to exist.

Dont rush into having a baby with someone who doesnt want to commit.
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replied November 24th, 2005
Introduce the idea again of having children slowly into conversations
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