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Hey! Im naomi new to this site thing im 18 and my partner is 40 alltho he looks very young :d anyway.. I might be pregnent I have missed 3 days off my pods and I have got pains and fell sick and

belive it or not I taken 8 tests and they all come back not pregnent...Lol

anyway im scared of having a baby because of my partners age
i dont want my baby to be wrong or not normale I want a healthy baby.

Could you tell this from a scan
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replied September 11th, 2005
Extremely eHealthy
If hes old enough to make sperm, baby will be fine im sure--he's not that old. I dont even know if the mans age makes a difference for birth defects--i think its mostly the women. Unless he's a heavy hard drug user

this is just my opinion no medical knowlege on this at all
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replied September 11th, 2005
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I just read that the quality and viability of a mans sperm decreases slowly after age 35 aswell as a womans capability to become pregnant does after 35. But seing as men can make women pregnant till - well theyre very old - I don't think it should be a problem :)
i'm sure your baby - if you're preggers - will be fine. :d

he isn't exactly old! ;) besides I think that if he does get you pregnant its not as much about his sperm as it is about the genes of both of you and how you treat your body while being preggers.

Do you want this pregnancy? If you do, good luck getting the positive! :)
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replied September 11th, 2005
Extremely eHealthy
Hey, im 43--
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replied September 11th, 2005
Experienced User
Ya, and 43 isn't exactly old either :)
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replied September 11th, 2005
Experienced User
Hey thanks ...

Yes I want to be pregnent and im hoping I am

my partner is healthy as im I too
so we should have no problems I think

can a scan tell you if your baby is going to be born normal?????
Thanks
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replied September 11th, 2005
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Well they can do scans later in the pregnancy to test if the baby has all organs it needs to have and whether the skin in the neck is folded or not.

I think this neck thing is about downs syndrome, not sure tho.

But if you're both healthy, why worry? :p
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replied September 11th, 2005
Experienced User
True.

I feel a bit better now thank you for the info
and I will keep you posted if im pregs or if I turn
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replied September 11th, 2005
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Look forward to hearing :d
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replied September 11th, 2005
Extremely eHealthy
Keep us posted k?
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replied September 12th, 2005
Experienced User
Hello well I still havent turned
been having pains all night
lots of wind and gas....
Been eating more too

but still no period yet :d
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replied September 12th, 2005
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Thats exciting! :)
did you consider getting a blood test done to see if that comes out positive?
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replied September 12th, 2005
Experienced User
Ouch!!!!

Blood test ermmm iv never had one be4 but I think I will have too
could that be abel to tell with me being 4 days late?

Thanksxx
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replied September 12th, 2005
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The blood preg test shows I think within 10 days to 2 weeks. So right around your period or a little before. That is what I believe. Someone said they have test to show in 1 day--but dont use that one too often.

Good luck--some of the urine tests would show by now, but if like me and my daughter wont show til 3 weeks after missed period.
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replied September 12th, 2005
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Hehe... Never had a bloodtest done. But I don't think its that horrible. :wink:
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replied September 12th, 2005
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Im going to wait 3 days and if I still havent turned
then im going to the doctors for a blood test

im scared but im going to have to have it done
xx
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replied September 12th, 2005
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No age does not matter really for the man. Look at michael douglas or larry king. And blood tests aren't so bad and if you're pregnant you'll be having them a lot. Good luck!
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replied September 12th, 2005
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Thanks!
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replied September 12th, 2005
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Good Luck
Good luck.. Hope you are prgnant.. I dont think age matters. Why should it? Well anyway I hope that you find out soon. I will pray for you
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replied September 13th, 2005
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Lol.. Thanks angel
thats nice

going for a blood test today so we shall see

xx
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