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Actual Phone Call With Chris!....

Okay, well I called him, b/c I think im gonna make an agreement...I told him an hour a week(thats it for now! Until he proves himself to me) and he said," ok, thats a start, what is ur price? " lol...Wut should I say for just an hour a day? He makes good money...I dont know what I should do.....Any suggestions? He does seem to b coming around and I guess I should give him another chance(not with me and him) but for his daughter...I told him to shove the idea of me and him up his ass, that aint ever happening...Lol, I was a biiiiitch, and it felt gooooood!
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Lol! Which is it? An hour a day or an hour a week? I say 250 a month! Make him pay! It is fun to be mean isnt it? I love it.
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replied August 9th, 2004
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An hour a week! My bad...Lol, thats prolly have his paycheck! Lol
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Well, I think you should add up you basic monthly expenses for jaydyn, and eventhough she hasn't gone to daycare yet, you may want to add that in, and split it down the middle, so he can pay half. I think it's fair. But anyway, will the visits be supervised? I hope so. Just be careful. And it shoul be maybe two days a week for an hour if that is good for you. And keep being firm, don't get soft, and show him whose boss.
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Yea, definetly supervised!!!!!!He wanted to take us to dinner and I was like helllll no, im not letting him do shitttt!!! Lol, no an hour a week is good for now, I have to see if hes changed any

it will b on a trial basis
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replied August 9th, 2004
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I say add up the expenses, and then decide a certain percentage... I say that half would be kinda alot, considering he only gets an hour a week... You cant do much with your kid in an hour.... Are you going to be with? Maybe you should try 1 hour-1day of the week... Then slowly move it up to 2 or 3 hours if hes on his best behavior....
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replied August 9th, 2004
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I agree with newlife.
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Yea half may seen like a lot, but you have to think, he is not paying to spend time with jaydyn like she's a baby escort. He is paying to take care of his child, and if jordan has to pay for all of her expenses now, he should atleast pay for half b/c they both made her. Atleast that is what I would do.
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Im going to go back to work but im wondering how much is daycare?? I kno its expensive and cant I get something going b/c im on mediciaid? Has anyone heard of that? I think theres a special finiancial aid for that..Im not sure...

Yea it'll start off one day for one hour a week
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Well, down here it depends on the kind that you get. But as for medicaid , what state do you live in ?
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replied August 9th, 2004
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South carolina
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Hey! I just talked to him again, he said he would pay me more than I would get with childsupport, b/c he doesnt want to go back to court! Ahhaha, I got him int he palm of my hands! Wohoo..He said to tell him what kind of formula, what size clothes, but I just want money..Shouldnt that b what I get? Just money, not clothes or nething...?
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Lol. Go for the money, b/c you know what she needs, and if you have to go out for a midnight diaper run, a pile of clothes won't help. But if he says that he'll give you money and buy things for the baby every now and then, well that's fine.
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replied August 9th, 2004
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I can kind of understand where chris is coming from....He wnats to make sure his monye is being used on jaydyn and not u. (not that you would) but he may also think he is going to get away with spending less. If nothing else, give him a list of exactly what to buy and have him hand you a receipt. Lol!
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Okay in sc ya'll have a program called the abc child care program, and it is supposed to help you out with the cost of childcare, but they aren't taking new apps right now.
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Lol chrissy--
thats wut I thought it was--abc, thanks!
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replied August 9th, 2004
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Yea I understand too. But some people don't seem to understand, that when a court awards child support, they don expect it to just be used for clothed diapers and formula. They expect it to be used to take care of the child meaning clothed, diapers, formila, child care, food, water, shelter, electricity, ect.. Ect...
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replied August 10th, 2004
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Hey stinky I think you should take baby items and some money, because he does want to make sure its being used wisely. And if hes willing to give you alot then take it. But dont get back with him!!!!
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replied August 10th, 2004
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Take him for all he's worth! And like nikki said don't get back with him! You can do much better!
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replied August 10th, 2004
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Yeah I say get as much as he will give you, but be careful that it isn't so much that he starts saying "i need more time with her blah blah..."
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