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a Message For You From Sarah Smith (Page 1)

On april 24, 1996, sarah smith gave the following speech at an international pro-life conference in rome. The conference was called, "a congress for life." it was organized to celebrate the first anniversary of pope john paul ii's encyclical letter evangelium vitae - the gospel of life. The conference was held at the legionaries of christ seminary in rome and was attended by approximately 500 men and women including; pro-life leaders, political leaders, media representatives, priests and seminarians. Following is the speech given by sarah smith:

"my name is sarah smith and I wish to thank you all, your eminencies, and all of the wonderful legionaries of christ for allowing us to be with you today. I did not know of the abortion until I was 12 years old. I grew up feeling that I was the same as my friends, except for having numerous surgeries and physical complications. The only difference I felt was an incredible loneliness and a knowledge that something was missing. I never felt whole. I battled with severe depression and found myself dying of anorexia nervosa at age 12, when my mother knew it was time to tell me the truth.

She sat next to me and took my hand and looked me in the eyes and said, "sarah, you are a twin. I aborted your twin brother and tried to abort you. Please know I did not know what I was doing and I pray someday you are able to forgive me. I love you and need you to know that you are a welcome part of our family."

at that moment I knew what I had been missing all my life and that I was called to something much greater than I had knowledge of. Immediately I felt the overwhelming pain of the knowledge that I should be dead. As I stand before you today I am painfully aware that this is only possible because my twin brother took a scalpel for me, and I stand in his place and memory, giving him honor and a face.

We have become bombarded with statistics in our fight for life. Thirty-two million babies are killed in the united states alone. Yet every one had a face, a life, a creator who loved them and created them in his image. As you look at me today, you realize that I am no different than you, yet I stand before you today a representative of the dead -- a representative of the innocent lives who today may lose their lives. Who will speak for them?

The words of christ are clear - "what you have done to the least of these you have done unto me." you and I are called and commissioned to care for these little ones just as we would care for jesus himself. To walk away and say this is not my problem is to walk away from jesus himself.

Many people upon finding out about the abortion ask me how did I feel, or to what can I compare this to. The only thing I can compare my life to is that of an innocent jew being made to walk down the streets of germany naked in front of many people and into a room he knows he will never come out of. In my case, unfortunately, the people leading me into that room are my mother and father. Yet the people looking on at the sidelines are people like you. And I ask you today, will you speak up or will you silently look away as another person who needs your help is led to their death?

I have forgiven my parents long ago as I remember the words jesus spoke as he hung bleeding and bruised from the cross, "forgive them father for they know not what they do." his words pertain to the sins of abortion. Most men and women who involve themselves with abortion don't know what they're doing, as were my parents.

Many women who demand the right to an abortion say, "it's my body, it's my choice." let me make one thing very clear to you today - my mother's choice was my death sentence. It is not only a woman's body we are discussing in an abortion. It is the entire flesh and blood of someone just like me.

Then we have the issue of medical personnel stating it is just tissue. For anyone who has ever studied biology, you know better. Before any woman even knows she is pregnant her child already has a beating heart at 20 days. Show me one piece of tissue or cancer you believe must be cut out with a beating heart. Show me a liver or kidney that has it's own blood type. That child is perfect from it's first day. All it needs is time, oxygen and nutrition.

Another startling fact is that in medical journals it states the fetus is capable of feeling pain at 8 weeks of gestation. In america, the vast majority of abortions are performed between 10 to 12 weeks, well after the child can feel the entire procedure. So don't tell me abortion is a simple procedure that expels a piece of tissue and doesn't hurt anybody.

I was there. I was less then an inch away from my innocent twin brother when his body was ripped apart, and he felt the entire thing. We were 14 to 16 weeks along in the second trimester. That was how my life was meant to end.

Yet I was spared to stand before you today and tell you on behalf of those who have no voice that if you remain silent, in my country alone a person just like you and me will die every 20 seconds of every day. We have been commissioned by jesus to speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves and we have also been commissioned by the holy father, who I had the privilege of meeting a few hours ago.

As I told him my story he looked at me so intensely as if to say, "speak the message! Proclaim the truth!" and then he kissed me and gave me a blessing to go and speak about life. And that is what he says to all of you as he blesses and kisses us with his encyclical. Preach the gospel - the good news of life. What is the greatest gift of all? When jesus outstretched his arms and said, "this is my body given up for you". Imagine if jesus had been selfish with his body and not given so freely of his life to you and me. Where would we be today? We would be nothing. The gift of a mother's body for 9 months of her life is one of the most beautiful gifts of all time. We must fight to protect it.

As I stand here alone knowing I have my brother as a precious guardian angel who is with me always, I know my life is a gift. And today I wish to give it back to you, the people and to the church, as a symbol of the consuming power of god's redemption and of his life and truth. You and I as a church represent life, and together we will extend that life into a hurting and dying world. We will give them the truth of life and we shall never be silent.


I love you and god bless you."
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replied June 3rd, 2004
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And may the force be with you too.
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replied June 3rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Very sad story, but had she been aborted then she never would have known the difference. It sounds harsh I know, but abortion is sometimes what is needed for the mother.
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replied June 3rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
It's true -- it's being born that caused her problems. If she'd been successfully aborted, she wouldn't have suffered so much misery.
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replied June 3rd, 2004
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If she was beyond the 8 week point for when a fetus feels pain why doesn't she remember the pain?
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replied June 3rd, 2004
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Because I childs memory doesnt develop until a while after theyre born..

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replied June 3rd, 2004
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[quote]because I childs memory doesnt develop until a while after theyre born.. [quote]

neither does their sense of pain because pain is learned through cognizant experience.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Maybe she wouldn't but do you not see how much she loves her life now and she was able to get over her problems. People get over their problems people, having them when you are young is not a death sentence.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Experienced User
No, sounds like she has been miserable her whole life and can't get over it at all. I agree she would have been better off aborted.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Heartless, it is not up to you to determine whether someone else's life is worth living. Only that person knows and being that she is a person now (according to your standards )she most definitly does.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Experienced User
No it's not, and no one is saying that. Just that all her misery is down to a failed abortion. It would have been avoided if it had been done properly.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Or if there had been no abortion done at all, she would have had her brother and they both would have been alive and well.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Experienced User
Or if her parents had both been blown up by terrorists before she was conceived....
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replied June 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Now you are not making any sense. Her mother had what some called a botched abortion and ended up having her daughter and lived through it. Proving that she did not need an abortion since raising her daughter didn't kill her, note that her daughter had problems because of the botched abortion so that took extra time out of her mother, probably the same give or take a little time it would take to take care of two healthy children, ie her and her brother should she have decided not to go through with it at all. Having a baby that is disabled or has health problems does not mean that the abortion should have gone better, it means that she should not have had an abortion at all because she ended up raising it anyway but now because of her choice, the child has to suffer and the woman has to take even extra care of the child then she would if she didn't even try to have the abortion.
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replied June 4th, 2004
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The only thing it proves is that her abortion wasn't done very well!

I'm just trying to point out how everything is hypothetical, it is like saying that if someone does have a miserable life then they should have been aborted. That's not how it works unfortunatley until someone invents a time machine. It is unfortunate for her, that girl, that she had a miserable life but it doesn't say anything about abortions generally. Or I can start pointing to all the women who have kids and try and bring them up and they turn out to be psychopathic killers, or women who die in childbirth and say, see she should have had an abortion. That is not what the debate is about.
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replied June 4th, 2004
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We can also point out that if einstein was aborted the japenese may have one world war 2 and if bill gates was aborted you would have to use that stupid notepad or word pad that is barely formattable, and we can also point out the woman who died from uteral lacerations and hemorraging after an abortion and say, see she should've gone through with the pregnancy and alot of the woman who die from abortions, suffer a long time before they die or they suffer alot but get lucky and survive, just because alot of them don't die, doesn't mean they don't suffer, it maybe because the process is so gruling that obviously something is wrong when the toilet is filled with blood so they get help and survive.
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replied June 4th, 2004
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Exactly. Abortion has absolutely nothing to do with what happens to the people who are born or what they achieve in life, since you can't know in advance. So the question of having an abortion is only about whether you want to be pregnant or not, and if hitler's mother or einstein's mother or osama bin ladens mother had had abortions the world might have turned out differently but we wouldn't know that, it would just have happened. There's all sorts of people who didn't grow up because they were killed in car accidents, and no one is talking about banning cars.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
But they are talking about some idiotic notion of teenagers not having anyone else in the car with them which I believe will do nothing but cause traffic and and aggresive driving because traffic causes angry people and angry people drive aggresivly wether they know it or not. Anyway, they also considered raising the driving age to 18 which is again, stupid.
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replied June 4th, 2004
Experienced User
I guess your in the us?
Do you know how funny the rest of the world thinks it is that you have to be over 21 to have a drink!
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replied June 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Um, I said driving age not drinking age.
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