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Masterbaton Issue W/ Partner

hey i was wondering if ne othre wemon havee problems w/ there man masterbaton. i dont get to se my girl very often and she gets real jealouse if i masterbate. its not like i do it wen shes around or nething. btu there are times when i only get to see her like every 3 5 7 days and sometimes weeks and wenever i bring the subject up she gets all defensive. believe me i would rather her be here so we can do things togethor but she aint and she says i cant play with myself. i mean when i do it i'm always thinking about her and never watch porn or nething. is this normal for girl to do or am i wrong to want to masterbate. and even worse is that somtimes when we are apart and we talk she talks all sexy like and turns me on then xpects me to go to bed all horney. i rly try for her but somtimes it keeps me up at night and botheres me at work and stuff. and when we do see each other its like all i am is horny and i dont want to her to think im just in it for sex or nething because i love my babigirl and i try to do what she asks of me. its just sometimes its hard

so neways, is it normal to play with urself when you cant be with your partner or am i wrong to do it. and is she wrong to ask me to stop doin it
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First Helper hornyandconfused
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replied September 27th, 2007
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In My Opinion
she should thank her lucky stars you are masturbaing in her absense and not cheating on her????????????
Yes I believe it is normal and your not alone ...my guy takes care of his needs that way when I am out of town ......its just release ? please its not like you will leave her for yourself ? I can't imagine why she would be so set against your masturbating ? why does it bother her so much am not clear on it ....and why tell her ? if she doesn't ask you don't bring it up ...good luck
wazywoman /robin
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replied September 27th, 2007
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Hi. I understand you have a serious issue you would like to discuss. But women's chat is for women. No men.

Maybe you could post this in MEN'S chat?
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replied September 27th, 2007
Especially eHealthy
I'll move the topic to Women's Issues, since he clearly wants female responses primarily.

As for my opinion: Your girlfriend needs to open her eyes. Many people masturbate while in relationships. She shouldn't get jealous. As someone else said, it's a heck of a lot better for you to masturbate than to say, cheat on your girlfriend! Why don't you tell her that? She might not like to hear it, but then again she may be at an age where she still needs to develop some maturity and understanding.

Heck yeah it's normal. I masturbated even when I was dating someone for two years and engaged to him!! I still touched my'self when I was alone Wink Masturbation is a very personal thing, and it is not "self-sex" in any sense. It is different emotionally and physically from real sex.
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