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get over the anxiety of taking an HPT?..
i get up the nerve to do it..
and then i chicken out b/c i'm so scared of a BFN...

how do you guys do it?
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replied July 27th, 2007
what is BFN
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replied July 27th, 2007
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a negative test result
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replied July 27th, 2007
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lol! I was ttc for over a year and I used to have the opposite problem!! I used to get anxiety if I hadnt tested for a couple of days! Laughing
Have you been trying long? Getting BFN's is the worst and it never gets easier but just take a few minutes to rest and get your head together then go for it! I always think knowing the result is better than not knowing!
If its a BFN then it will happen just stay strong and positive, and have plenty of fun trying next month Wink
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replied July 27th, 2007
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no we haven't been trying long
but my bf isn't supportive at all when we get a bfn
and i think thats why i dred taking tests..

and he doesn't wnt to try anymore Sad
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replied July 27th, 2007
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how do you mean he isnt supportive, you mean he doesnt seem to care? why does he not want to try anymore? Sad
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replied July 27th, 2007
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yeah
he doesn't really care
like the last time we got a BFN he seemed like "oh well"..
didn't support me (i was crying)... and just let me go to work
i was bummed out all day and he didn't come home until aroudn 10 that night..

he doesn't want to try anymore b/c he thinks its too "stressful"..
idk it hurts me to keep going back and forth..
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replied July 27th, 2007
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I dont think men always understand what its like for women who really want a baby. Chris used to get alittle confused at times when I got upset, he used to try and say the right thing but it never came out like that.

Did he go out till 10 because he didnt know what to say or do to make you feel better or does he often do that type of thing?
Maybe he says he doesnt want to try anymore because he doesnt want you getting stressed or upset anymore. Maybe you could try and talk it through with him, tell him you would appreciate a little support and let him know ways in which he can do it!.
Remember if you havent been trying long you could face a few disappointments before you get the BFP you want so bad. You just have to try stay positive.
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replied July 27th, 2007
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i know
and i try to stay positive it's just hard when he's always handing me my
pill at night Sad..
he told me he wanted me back on BC.. so yeah it'll be a while still i guess...

thanks for the support Smile
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My husband wants ti know why I can't wait till I am late to test. He doesn't really care either and just tells me to stop stressing and it will happen if its meant to be, that just makes me cry and think it will never happen Crying or Very sad

He wants me back on the pill because he says I am an emotional wreck Evil or Very Mad

All I want is to have a health baby even if that means I only have one!

men just don't get it
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replied July 27th, 2007
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no they don't..
and on top of everything else he keeps going back and forth..
he wants a baby...
then he doesn't..
then he does..
well i don't know what he wants..

im' sorry that your hubby wants you back on the pill..
i know exactlly how you feel Sad
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