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Well i didn't exactly tell my parents but they got told. My Boyfriends mother decided she needed to shove her nose into everything and came to my parents house and blabbed to them. Which upset me a lot, Because my dad was there and I've always been my daddys little girl ... but he took it the best hes so excited. Now iI'mDealing with my boyfriends mother , as she yelled at me told me i needed to give my baby up for adoption. Well good thing my parents are standing up for me. Because of that she devil my boyfriend are taking time apart because he thinks its best now... although 3 days ago he was getting so excited because i just hit 3 months .Now his mother is trying to convince him its not his .. or that iI'mnot really prpregnant. well I've been to the doctor its been confirmed and its his as i hhaven'tbeen with anyone for the past 20 months .... I'm sorry its so long i just really needed to rant
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replied October 28th, 2008
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Im really sorry that all this is happening to you. Dont listen to his mom or anyone else you need to make decisions that are best for you and your child. As far as he is concerned, if he is going to leave at the slightest hint of trouble with his mother you dont need him in your or your babys life. I mean, if he believes his mother that its not his and he leaves you during your pregnancy I wouldnt let him back in once the babys born. I have yet to let my babys dad back in. It may seem like a lot but eventually you will find someone that deserves to be with you and your child more than he does and will stick up for YOU when times get tough, thats what you need. Its what happened to me, I have a wonderful boyfriend that I met while pregnant who is taking care of me and planning for and loving my son. There are guys like that out there.
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replied October 29th, 2008
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My daughter's mum was the same, she screamed at me to get an abortion and that i'd be a terrible mum, a failure. She eventually turned around just before Mika was born and now she's a doting grandma
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replied October 30th, 2008
My bfs mom said did the same thing to me and now she has nothing to do with marvin or me at this point. I hope she changes
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replied November 2nd, 2008
Thank you . sorry i havent been on in a while my computer isnt working. It makes me feel better that im not alone on the whole boyfriends mother being a she devil.
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