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Strange method of conceiving?

Hey, guys! I am not a teenager myself, but my friend (more like little sister) is and I really need some clarification regarding her wanting a baby. She just turned 16 in August and her boyfriend will be 16 in January. They both desperately want a baby! I have warned her and warned her again against this and it really is tearing my nerves up. I love her so much and, even though we aren't related, I look at her as my little sister. Her parents are very strict so she and her boyfriend aren't allowed to hang out therefore, eliminating sex. (Thank God) But she has come up with an absolutely most unreasonable and illogical way of getting pregnant. Her boyfriend will go into the men's restroom at her work and ejaculate inside a MEDICINE DROPPER. He will then give it to her right away so she can enter the restroom and, uhm, inject it inside of her. I'm glad that she is comfortable enough to share her "plans," with me but I am extremely concerned. I guess my question is, could she get pregnant by doing this? The sperm would surely die inside of the medicine dropper, right? Even if it will only be in there for a minute at the most. I'm not sure what to do or how to stop her... Any advice or answers to my questions arw greatly appreciated! Smile
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replied December 17th, 2015
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Sure, the turkey baster method has a chance of working. I suppose you could tell her it is important to time it right - exactly one week before her next period! You could suggest to her parents that she needs an IUD - not sure how to approach that one. You cud introduce her to a 17year old who has a couple of kids already. Show her the difference in incomes between those with and without high school diplomas. Best suggestion is to explain that her children deserve the best possible chance for success in life and her plan will not get her there- it is in fact quite selfish.
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replied December 27th, 2015
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The method described here is similar to intravaginal artificial insemination procedure, which is adopted by single women who want to conceive via sperm donations.

The chances of conception and successful pregnancy are present, even though the rates are lower than that conducted medically.

The best way to address this situation would be to counsel both the kids and help them understand the practical issues involved with raising the child, at such a young age.

They should make a determination on themselves, to wait until they complete the education and have a successful career or employment before they choose to be a parent.
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