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Bear with me please, and men - this is not the wonderful situation you might imagine.

My (female) partner just wants to be f**ked, whenever I feel the need to climax.
She has no interest in foreplay and often does not want to orgasm. She seems to want me to just use her.

All sounds great, no?

Well it isn't because I'm left feeling guilty and that I'm taking advantage of her by not helping her orgasm
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replied January 7th, 2013
Cute that you are trying to feel guilty ...

I would ask her, away from the bedroom, exactly how she feels about it. Ask her if she is afraid of offending or upsetting you if she climaxes before you do. I use to feel that way myself, so she wouldn't be the only one.
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