last night (14th april.) i got really close to this boy ..i do really like him but today was the scariest day of my life and i dont think i want anything 2 do with him anymore.
anyways, heres what happened last night,
he put his thing into the back of me.. if you know what i mean,
he also fingered me, (at the front of me) after touching himself down there.
we didnt use protecion . which i know was very stupidd but i did get pushed into it, i told him i was scared etc but he ws like stop worrying, i kno what im doing,but he obviously didnt. he did it for about 10 seconds cus i pulled away nd he said he never came whie he was in me from the bk.

but today , i picked up the courage to go to boots and get the morning after pill.
i took it, but im scared that it hasnt worked because i think i have an intolerence to some of itss ingredients. (i know i should have told the nurse thhis but i was under so much pressure , nd realy scared, i already had to lie i was 16.)

the thing is, i took it and didnt throw up within the 3 hrs of takin it. i also didnt seem 2 have any side effects.

my period is due in a weeek, so that happened on the 20th day of my cycle.
but my periods are still kind of irregular each month.

anyway i need your advice cus im so scared.
do you think it has worked? and do you think i could have gotten pregnant in the first placee from what happened?

please reply i need your advice!
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replied April 14th, 2009
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if you took the morning after pill the day after then that was a good move..however, if all you had was anal sex then you dont have a risk of pregnancy..honestly i think you're fine...but next time A) Stand up for yourself! if you dont wanna do anything tell him NO...and B)always use protection so you dont get yourself in a position like this...
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replied April 14th, 2009
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girl at 14 you shouldn't be having sex!!!!really..you should most definitely wait until youre alittle older and with the right guy..it means alot more..plus..do you really wanna be a mom at 14?
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replied April 14th, 2009
the thing is though, i did say no..more than once actually. he sort of pushed me into it, and i gave in i guess cus im in love with him nd i trusted him. but i dont wana talk to him again after this! its been really scary 4 me, cs i dnt wana be a mum at this age!
ino im too young and im never lettin anything like that happen again 4 a good few years. just hope im okay though and it worked cus im still really nervous.

keep the advice coming!
it helps alot
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replied April 15th, 2009
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123z,

Good for you for realizing that the guy is not good for you. Don't ever let a guy talk you into anything. If he cared for you at all he wouldn't have done that.
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replied April 16th, 2009
listen. your 14. you should know better then to have unprotected sex with all the sexual education crap you should be learning in school RIGHT NOW. i ahve a 14 year old sister who is having sex and my parents dont care. they dont care if tshe gets preg or gets a std. dont be stupid. if you really wanna have sex at least take birth control and make sure he uses a condom. also if any boy tries to forced himself on you stand up for yourself and say no. if it was anal sex you wont get preg. but if he was in you doggy style it was a good thing you took plan b. he could have been lying about not ejaculating in you
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replied April 18th, 2009
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maegan, why don't your mother and father care?
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