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pregnant signs lite period

I need help.. I am going a senior in high school. I had sex on May 31, with my fiance. I have a 2 very very lite periods. I need help. Bc I think that I am pregnant, I have all the signs. Help me!!! PLEASE!!!! Embarassed Embarassed
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replied August 12th, 2008
Have you taken a test yet? It's rare, but not impossible, to have 2 periods and be pregnant. sunny
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replied August 12th, 2008
Catie
Take some deep breaths,honey. It's possible you could be pregnant and maybe having a miscarriage or maybe just pregnant. I know you are scared,honey. Is there any adult you can go to or your school guidance counselor? Can you buy a pregnancy test? Please let us know how you are.
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replied August 12th, 2008
I have not taking a test yet.. But I am scared.. I dont what to do.. My fiance broke up with and said if I am pregnant that he doesnt want to take care of me or the kid, if i am. I am taking some deep breathe, but I am still scared. No, there are no adults that I can go 2. And school, doesnt start 4 other 2 weeks. No, I cant, but I can go to my dr., and get her to check for me. I will kept yall know how I am.... I am only 18, and I have going kick ut 4 something that my ex-finace did, and spent 2 months away from home. And I dont want that to happen again.. SO I AM REALLY SCARED, AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
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replied August 12th, 2008
I understand how you must feel and I'm really sorry you have to go thru this. You know what, even if you aren't pregnant, I would kick that boyfriend of yours to the curb telling you he won't have anything to do with you [or baby possibly]. He needs to be smacked around a little. Have your doctor check for you. He/she cannot tell your parents if you don't want them to know!
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replied August 12th, 2008
I know you are scared
Catie,listen to Ambercpht. She's very wise. First of all just take those deep breaths and KNOW that,whatever happens,you will be ok. It won't be easy but you WILL be ok. Do you have ANY adult you can go to? Are you afraid of your parents finding out?
The future looks scary,I know. As far as your fiancee`,if he would walk out when you need him the most then he won't make a good husband.
You a not a bad person,honey. Know that. You do need a support system. Start with your dr. I'm sure they've seen this and can maybe steer you toward free counseling.
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replied August 12th, 2008
Ya.. I know that is what want to do, but it need to find a way up there. Ya.. I am talking to his brother and he said the same thing. Ya he does.. I realy want my mom to know, but then again i dont. Bc I am really scared...
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replied August 12th, 2008
I dont what to I am really really scared.... I am upset and confussed. What am I going to do, if I am. My ex-finace doesnt wnat to be with me or the baby possiable
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replied August 12th, 2008
Extremely eHealthy
was it unprotected sex? if so are you on birthcontrol? if it was unprotected and you aren't on birth control there is a good chance you could be pregnant...you need to go take a test now
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replied August 12th, 2008
ya... it was. I am on bc, but i dont think I took it that day.. u dont understnad my mom would be piss at me
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replied August 13th, 2008
Extremely eHealthy
Can I ask why you still think your pregnant even after having two periods?
How long have you been on birth control?
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replied August 13th, 2008
Extremely eHealthy
if you're on birth control you should be fine if you take it as you should..you said you missed it that day? You're still covered if you only missed one day...but if you aren't taking your birth control as prescribed then you're playing with fire..i would think as scared as you are right now hopefully you have learned your lesson and will take your birth control at the same time daily so you dont get in this situation again...i'm anal about taking my birth control on time everyday because I dont want to have to be so worried
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replied August 13th, 2008
No... Not really.. I am playing with fire. YA.. I am sccared... BC I am still in school. Ya it is kinda of hard to rember to take it
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replied August 13th, 2008
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I still don't understand why you think pregnancy... Have you even tested yet? You just seem to be jumping the gun a little-- which is easy to do, I know.

When is your period due for this month? How long have you been on birth control and were your periods light for being on birth control or just light?

You need to test soon, it's been two months.. If you can't get a test on your own then ask a close friend to bring on over, maybe even your ex fiance's brother since he seems to know the situation.
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replied August 13th, 2008
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HAVE YOU TAKEN A TEST?

I'm writing in caps because you need to do this! You are freaking out, which is undestandable, but it seems like you are avoiding this test which is irrational.

Go get a test, and tell us what the result is so then we can help you from there on.

No lecture about BC right now, JUST GET A TEST!
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replied August 13th, 2008
no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i have not taken the test!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yet...... but i will in a couple of days and get back to u guys, with the results
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