So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year, its been good but not very satisfying in a certain area. we haven't had much of sexual interaction, I didn't really mind until I found a bunch of porn sites on his computer. Automatically I assumed it was the reason we weren't having sex very often, which case I was correct. a couple nights ago we had a discussion about it and he told me he'd try to quit watching it, and failed to do so. he explained to me he hadn't been in a relationship in 2 years and porn was the only thing he had blah blah blah. I'm the one that's more experienced and wanting to explore new things to do in bed, but he's kept it simple. I don't understand what he's getting from porn that I cant give him myself. (another thing, hes dated Mexican girls before me, most of his porn is Mexican girls, could it be because he wants Mexican girls not white & should I be offended?
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replied July 7th, 2013
He's not interested in white! Sorry to tell you the truth! But when a man is not paying attention to the girl he's with he is either screwing someone else or he's confuse and doesn't really know what he wants. I could be wrong but I've dated confuse guys before and I just let them go before they do!
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replied July 7th, 2013
I'd say your boyfriend has a Mexican fetish.(another form of addiction.) personally I would try to bring this topic up with him. Sit down and talk. Talking is the key point in a relationship, right next to trust. I wouldn't be offended I'd be more dissapointed and puzzled. Like I sad, bring this issue up with your boyfriend and see if you can change your sexual activities.
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replied July 23rd, 2013
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replied July 23rd, 2013
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replied July 27th, 2013
It does not mean that he doesn't love you. It's just that he's been used to watching those Mexican porn's. Maybe he loves how they do it. Why don't you try to experiment. On bed try imitate Mexican women, like the women that he is watching, try to act like one and try to do what's on the video. I guess, this could add spice to your sex life.
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replied November 13th, 2014
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This honesty begins by finding a professional who is experienced in treating porn addiction and admitting that you have a problem. When discussing your addiction, don't leave out the embarrassing parts. Keep in mind that a professional therapist wants to help you overcome your addiction.
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replied November 20th, 2014
I dont think that it means he does not love you, he just has a fetish. Particularly for the spanish girls. Have you thought about watching it with him? Maybe call him papi Wink
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replied January 28th, 2015
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i think so you can need some experts person to solve your problem.
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