First off, my girlfriend has irregular periods (in previous events, her periods have skipped a month a couple times before), and I have pee'd before this event happened.

Continuing on, me and my girlfriend went swimming on the 9th of June (the water was chlorinated). I kept having a boner, because this was our first time swimming together (due to the long cold winter). She noticed and was teasing me about it, touching it here and there. Then I rubbed the tip of her vagina 3 times. I took out my penis, rubbed it on the tip of her vagina about three times too. Then, from the cool water, I stuck my penis inside her vagina once, and I felt warmness. I was scared of ejaculating, because I have never felt this feeling before (the feeling of warmness due to the cold water into a warm vagina). So, I quickly took out my penis and started stroking it to make sure if I ejaculated or not (Yes, I only penetrated her once). As I did, I stroked my penis quickly for about 15 seconds, then I started to feel the beginning of an ejaculation. As I felt the beginning of an ejaculation, I stopped stroking myself. This made me thought that I did not ejaculate.

As we went to eat right after, I went to go use the bathroom. I examined my penis, and I saw a fluid that looked like semen. I also smelled it in case, but then it smelt like my regular sperm, which smelled like the chlorinated swimming pool also. I was confused, for why would such liquid stay on my penis when I was in water? So, I was scared and confused because I wasn't sure if I ejaculated during the event or not. So, I jacked off just to make sure. As I ejaculated, I ejaculated a lot. Usually when I ejaculate a second time in a row, I would not ejaculate a lot of semen. Also, it didn't take me long to ejaculate. When I ejaculate for a second time, it would also take the process of "jacking off" longer.

EXTRA INFO:
I forgot whether this happened after swimming or after eating, but my girlfriend told me that her swim suit got wet (by fluids from her vagina). BUT, it for sure happened when we were done swimming.

Also, our first time having unprotected sex, I felt the same gewy and semen smelling liquid on the tip of my penis. I have penetrated her more than once (I think we had unprotected sex for at least a minute). She was not pregnant (Thank GOD). My semen sometimes is odorless but sometimes has the chlorine smell.

Today is the 19th of June (10 days after the event in the pool), and she still did not have her period yet. Her last period from what she told me was in the beginning on May. She told me that her next period should be later this month, or in the beginning of next month (Like my earlier message, her irregular period can skip a month).

Basically, I'm paranoid due to the liquid on the tip of my penis when I went to the bathroom and the liquid that she claimed to have wet her swimming suit.

So, based on my descriptions, can my girlfriend be pregnant? Please help and thank you.
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replied June 23rd, 2012
Hi,
Welcome to ehealthforum,
If she was during her fertile days/closer to ovulation time at the time of sexual contact, and if pre-cum or semen has come in contact with vagina, she can be at risk for pregnancy. Since the pullout/withdrawal method of contraception is known to be associated with highest failures (pre-cum/pre-ejaculatory fluid is known to contain sperms and no man can be 100% sure that pre-cum/pre-ejaculatory fluid did not leak out during vaginal penetration), chances of pregnancy cannot be ruled out completely (especially if she was during fertile days/around ovulation time at time of intercourse). If fertile mucus had been present at time of intercourse, sperms can stay alive for 5-7 days and fertilize the egg upon ovulation. After ovulation, egg has only 24-48 hours to get fertilized. Wait and watch for her periods. Look out for development of any new symptoms if pregnancy is suspected. She should visit her gynecologist for further evaluation and assistance if she does not get her periods within 10 days of expected period dates, or gets abnormal bleeding. If pregnancy gets ruled out and if you are not ready for pregnancy, but intend to remain sexually active, you should consider getting her started on suitable regular birth control measures to be protected (after her periods). She should be regular with birth control use as instructed. Avoid having unprotected sexual contact if you are not ready for pregnancy.
Take care.



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