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32, never been pregnant, have not been using protection

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hi, am glad am i found this website, the taught of not been pregnant has been bothering me for long, am 32years old and in all my life i ve never been pregnant, its not like i have been using protection, i even has lots of sex during ovulation but am still not pregnant, although i use to think the problem could be from my first boyfriend but when we broke up, he got someone pregnant. My next boy friend, its the same problem, he already had a baby before i dated him, we broke soon, i dated another guy for every short while, and still did not get pregnant. am not in a relationship presently, although i have protected sex once a while with an ex-boyfriend, but sometimes we make mistakes during sex it become unprotected, which should occurred to pregnancy, but it does not, i usually prefer to have have during ovulation because i get more excitement. all of these has resulted to nothing. am just scared am not going to have serious problems when am married. please help me.

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replied March 21st, 2012
Getting Pregnant Answer A33021
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Women are more interested in having intercourse during ovulation time (it is natural instinct of body to make hormonal changes/influences culminate to be fruitful). If you have been trying for pregnancy and have not been successful (or when you plan to become pregnant), you should consider getting a complete infertility work-up done for you and your partner to see if there are any underlying causes for the infertility/inability to conceive. There are many factors that govern the chances of having a successful pregnancy. Hormonal issues, problems involving ovaries and ovulation, uterine problems, tubal blocks, cervical or vaginal infections, ovarian failure/suppression etc., should be ruled out for you. For your partner, semen analysis should be done to rule out infections and to confirm the recent quality and quantity of sperms produced. Treatment as appropriate (based on examination and investigations results) would be started to help you get pregnant. Do not delay your pregnancy plans more, as advanced maternal age or age after 35 years, is associated with increase in incidences of pregnancy complications and recurrent miscarriages. Consider visiting your gynecologist/obstetrician for further evaluation and assistance and be in regular follow-up and monitoring as instructed. Have diet with foods rich in zinc content to ensure better maturation of egg and sperms. Monitor cervical mucus changes and the BBT (basal body temperature) charting to predict your ovulation and time your intercourse for having fruitful results (if you are planning for pregnancy). Have intercourse in positions that allow for deeper penetration for high deposit of semen.
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