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Nausea and irregular periods

lately I've been feeling a bit off, today I expericanced nausia to the max. my periods have been funny, I had a regular period, then it ended then a week later I began to bleed again, heavy for a day, then ever since every single day there is a spot or two of blood , this has been going on for a week.
Could this be implantation bleeding? or spotting?!

HELP! I'm only 17, just turned 17. I do have safe sex with my boyfriend of 8 months,
I go to school full time and work part time at a job I love. I've always wanted a child but I dont think I want one this early, all though If I am pregnant I dont think I could bring my self to do an abortion,

I'd like some advice or opinions or even some of your stories to help me through this,
please in thanks from a girl in serious need!

xoxo.
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replied May 4th, 2009
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I had an abortion in college and it was the best decision I could have made. It wasn't painful or scary. I don't regret it at all.
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replied May 4th, 2009
I just hear of people who have them and then later in life wonder what would of happen to that child you know? another scarey thought.
but yes its definatly one of my top decissions if I am
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replied May 5th, 2009
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What would happen to you if you have a child? Those are the questions that seldom get asked. People think its all rosy good times to have a baby. It isn't. Especially when you aren't ready. I've had an abortion and I don't regret it either. Sure you'll wonder 'what if' - you'd wonder 'what if' if you don't have an abortion, miscarry, or deliver a 12 lb bouncing baby. There are always 'what ifs' in life.
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replied May 6th, 2009
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alys92 wrote:
I just hear of people who have them and then later in life wonder what would of happen to that child you know? another scarey thought.
but yes its definatly one of my top decissions if I am


You will have children later on in life. I did. If I didn't have an abortion then I wouldn't have the child I have now.
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replied May 6th, 2009
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aochriss wrote:
alys92 wrote:
I just hear of people who have them and then later in life wonder what would of happen to that child you know? another scarey thought.
but yes its definatly one of my top decissions if I am


You will have children later on in life. I did. If I didn't have an abortion then I wouldn't have the child I have now.


AoChriss how can you say that if you wouldve had a baby then you wouldnt have the child you have now. you made a decision, like any of us that get into this situation. You can have a child then have another one later in life it is possible. If this guy your with is truly your "one" then he should have loved you baby or not and it is completely possible you could just have had 2 children.
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replied January 19th, 2012
you are way too yound to be in such a serious relationship with your boyfriend...To say the least you might find out who you are and what you want for your future before bringing the thought of what to do if Im pregnant...Get educated, informed, and be able to plan for a child..I don't know if safe sex is just using a condom but that isn't always convenient...You are still a child and by the sound of this conversation very immature. A baby is the most important decision you can make...To say hell just have another one later if I don't feel like dealing with this is a bunch of crap... There are way too many other constructive things to be doing at 17 besides sex...I always heard self discipline is first and foremost in an ADULTS life...Im just saying you don't have to let it happen and say oops just forgot. Its totally a life changing experience to be pregnant, what that means and who is involved...BE SMART...Make good choices, No one wants a parent who can't support them, but why be one if you don't have too...words from a mom who really thinks a lot about young girls who have too many responsibilities at such a young age and who suffers the most for these actions...Not to mention your parents who want to take part in the blessed event, It should be a happy experience..Thats what you want your child to know...Just because someone says they had an abortion and never regreted it doesn't mean you will be as cold about it...Im not pro life or pro choice I just know every child wants to think they were planned...wouldn't you?
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replied January 19th, 2012
There is always adoption and you can have open or closed adoption you can choose the adoptive parents I mean abortion isn't the only option there is couples that are ready to be parents that medicaly can't get pregnant that would love that baby like he or she was there own
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