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I am too much sexy man. But my wife is not like me, after squeezing firmly she come to enjoy sex, but not as my satisfaction. Her height & weight & height is 54Kg & 5'-5" same as me. Slim figure as me. I want conduct sexy with my wife by vagina and oral sucking. I want to suck her very badly, whenever I request her about 100s time then she agree to suck my penis and I feel she do not get any sexual feeling sucking my penis. Whenever I suck her vagina she feels too much worm sexy feeling. Because I know how to make a most enjoyable sexual conduct.

Our conjugal life is 14 years and from the very begging I tried my best to make ANAL SEXY WITH MY WIFE but she could not agree. After 14 year I request her to conduct an anal sex & she agreed. But now I AM AFRAID THAT IF I DO THE SAME WHETHER IS IT HARMFUL FOR HER BODY/HEALTH OR NOT? We seen it in pron video. how they made it? PLEASE ADVISE ME DO I GET A CHANCE TO MAKE ANAL SEXY WITH MY WIFE-HAVING NO RISK OF HEALTH. BEST REGARDS.-SPIDERMAN

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replied March 10th, 2011
Sexual Health - Women Answer A20688
Welcome to the ehealthforum and I am really glad to help you out. I can understand your concern. You should talk freely and openly with your wife regarding your expectations and try explaining it to her.

Talk to your partner about her apprehensions, understand her feelings and sort it out with her. Also indulge in plenty of foreplay before penetration and also use some water based lubricant. But from the symptoms it looks like she is psychologically scared of anal sex. If she is not comfortable then you can have intercourse in other positions also.

I sincerely hope that helps. Take care.

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