My inlaws have been such a pain in my marriage and my life!

My mother inlaw is healthy and my father inlaw has brain tumor. Me and my husband have been married for 3 years, and we have a baby girl 21 months old. Since after I gave birth, they have never leave me alone! I was trying to maintain a good relationship with them because it seems like it matters a lot to my husband, because he is the only child. It starts from when I gave birth, I let them wait behind the curtains instead of waiting room(just being thoughtful), as soon as the baby pop out my father inlaw walked directly in to my delivery room to see the baby, and I was give out laying there with blood cover on my legs had half naked! Me and my husband were still living with them at that time, his mom always claim him as MAMA'S BOY. I tried to breastfeed my baby, and they judge me for not having enough breast milk(I had plenty) just because the baby cries sometimes. My father in law accuse me that the baby would try to suck on his finger if he try to stick it in her mouth simply because the baby is hungry. He told me that the baby should gain 1 pound in 10 days, with she gained 10 oz. When I try to put moisturizer on my baby, she cries out of her lung, my mother inlaw slam the door real hard on me, and later came in to the room accuse me why the baby cried so hard. I was depressed after I gave birth, my father inlaw told me that it's because I stayed inside the house too much, which I did, because when the baby wakes up during the night, I'm always the one who get up and comfort her, and I need to sleep during the day when she sleeps. So we finally moved out after 3 month. They have to decide where we move to, because if we move 30 minutes away they will freak out, and it means WAR! So we moved to somewhere 15 mins away from their place, and they come over everyday to see the baby and want us to go over their house 3 times a week. Not too long after we move out, my husband got fired, so we were spending our savings, and I worked for 3 month as a temp, and then we run out of money. We have to move back with them again. I'm trying limit the tv time for my baby, they have never respect my choice of doing this, they love to place her in front of tv, and my father in law's favorite thing is to put my child on his leg and watch Sprout. We got into conflict so many times, just because of TV. I try not to give my child any juice and sweets, my father in law would try to give my child doughnuts and cookies if you do not keep an eye on him. My mother in law has no common sense, she bought little rings for my baby to play with, I told her not to give it to my baby because she might choke on it. She did anyway, she told me that she has told the baby do not put it in her mouth. I can't say nothing about what they did to me, because they get really mad, and my mother in law would yell at me. She told me that I am weird and I get mad every time they try to talk to me, I don't know what to say....She slammed the door on me while we were renting apartment. She loves to control us, and she thinks that she helped us so much that we suppose to listen to her. Lots of times, she volunteered to help without even asking us, if we refuse her help she gets real mad. So my husband is still looking for job and I'm trying to get CPA exam done, I don't know what choice do I have, and they have made my life so hard, that I have thoughts of getting a divorce. I do love my husband, but his parents are too much for me! Please give me some advice! Thanks!