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marriage sexual health -what could be the problem?

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I am a 42 yr old married to a 42 yr old husband who does not seem that interested in marital relations, once every week at the most once every 2 weeks. I am slim and am ballet teacherand work out at the gymm and in very good health, and still attractive to other guys.... i can still turn heads. what from a guys prospective could be the problem. i have checked computer and no porn has been found. our realtionship is decent and steady. we have been married for 17 yrs. I even tried to buy lacy silky night clothes..... he has not requested me wear that and its been over 2 months since I bought it..... help guys... any suggestions? he is shy and doesn't talk to other women.
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replied January 9th, 2012
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How long has this problem been going on? It could be that he has something bothering him from work, or another problem outside your marriage. I have gone through that before.

And I have gone through phases where I just lose my libido(although not completely) for a week or 2.

You could try to spice things up a little other than the sexy attire, such as surprising him with oral or maturbating in front of him. Those are just some thoughts.
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