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so my sister in law is a lesbian and her and her girlfriend have told me that they found a donor and she is pregnant? i was just talking to her and she said the doctor told her she is 3 weeks....i have a funny feeling she is lying?? is it possible for someone to detect being pregnant at 3 weeks???and she has told me that she only got a donor 4 weeks ago....hmmmm
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replied April 6th, 2009
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I'm not sure what the lesbian part has to do with this. It is offensive.

If you want to know, ask her. Why would she lie about it?
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replied April 6th, 2009
if she was trying and new when she was ovulating, then yes she she can know. Ask her
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replied April 6th, 2009
ive got nothing against lesbians no way..she is an awesome chick...i was just unsure how the donor thing thats all no need to get angry about it mabel...
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replied April 7th, 2009
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I'm not angry, there are plenty of women who are heterosexual that have sperm donors. Being a lesbian has no bearing on this whatsoever. Nor does saying 'lesbian inlaw'. There is no such thing. She is your sister inlaw whose sexual orientation happens to be lesbian. The words you chose to use are offensive to a lot of people. You may choose to reconsider using those terms in the future.
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replied April 8th, 2009
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i think she used that term mabel because they are most likely married. Some find it hard to know what to call a gay couple as the dictionary meaning of the word marriage is male female. She just did not realize it would be the same terms. As for the being a lesbian having o bearing I think she was hinting that some one may not be telling the truth and could be a swinger or slept with a man to get pregnant. Having found a donor 4 weeks ago and her being 3 weeks pregnant is a pretty rare occurance as most of the pregnancy tests out there even the best ones are only 4 days before your next period. Your HCG levels at 3 weeks are not that high yet it would very hard to say you are pregnant. I would say it was almost impossble to say that.
Like my Doctor friend says everyone lies or does not get the truth just right.
bubz89 I hope this helps. If they agreed to have a baby together I think you should just be happy that you are going to be an auntie in 37 weeks or so.
Best of Luck
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