hi, im a lesbian. my problem is i haven\'t met a person who actually gave me an orgasm . well when my partner goes down i don\'t feel a thing. the only time i felt something was when once when my partner just rubbed and grinding. nothing works penetration with a dildo or any oral sex. i really don\'t know what is wrong with me. i feel like im broken or something is wrong.lately i have no sexual earges. i feel like its getting worse.
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replied May 14th, 2009
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Can you masturbate to orgasm? If you can, then there must be something psychological blocking you from feeling pleasure during sex. If you can't masturbate to orgasm, I would suggest that you get checked out by a doctor.
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replied March 1st, 2010
diet can lower libido, or maybe you're just overthinking it and need to relax. find something that turns you on and go with it.
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replied May 14th, 2010
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The only thing that can get me to orgasm is by stimulation of my clit. Dildoes and things don't really get me to cum but I really think that is normal. You're not alone sweetie ;]
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replied November 24th, 2010
You said you felt something by rubbing and grinding? I also have only reached orgasm once with a sexual partner (female or male). I can only reach orgasm by rubbing against on object (like a pillow, towel, or panties) on my bed.

I would suggest you look at some of the threads about female masturbation in the women's health section of this site. Until I found those threads, I thought I was completely weird and alone.

Turns out, most women can only reach climax by putting pressure through grinding, rubbing, or humping on the clitoris.

Wish you best of luck!
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replied February 25th, 2012
hi there im lesbian too,ive never had an orgasm by actual penetration i can only cum if my gf and i are rubbing against each other...its pretty normal actually...you can also try fantasizing one of your hottest sexual desires and just go with the flow, dont think of it too much
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