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Late period, maybe pregnant from fingering?

Hi. This may take a bit but please read and give me feedback! So about a month ago boyfriend and I became sexually active. Not full on sex because I'm not ready. But the first time we did anything, I have him a blowjob, I went and spit and rinsed with water. Then I took a drink and came back. We started kissing and then he fingered me. After that, we made out more and then he tried to give me oral but it only lasted a little because I didn't like it. Anyways. That was the first time. It was the last day of my period. I want to know if he would have touched anything putting himself away and zipping. If I could have gotten pregnant from that? And if rinsing with water was enough to rid the sperm? The second time, was the safest, he did me. I put shorts on and did him. The last time we did anything was two weeks ago. he did me. I did him with a bj. Then gave him handjob. We wiped on his tank top and then maybe 15 minutes later be did me but with his mouth again. My period was suppose to be here yesterday or the day before. He is a worried wreck and now starting to worry. Could I be pregnant? Or is stress making things worse? Can you make your period come faster? I'm so worried. It's the first time I've been sexually active. I know there's always a chance but I want to know what the odds are?... Help!
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replied May 23rd, 2013
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Hello,

If you take chances you will one day become pregnant without meaning to but this time you probably aren't pregnant.

If his fingers were wet with his semen when he fingered you and if it was less than a few days before you ovulated there might be a chance you are pregnant.

I have no way of calculating the odds and if I knew how there is no accounting for the couples who can't get pregnant even when they are trying or the couples who seem to defy the odds by getting pregnant who (seemingly) just sit too close together.
There are no absolute guarantees with people other than complete abstinence.

Unaccustomed sexual activity can stimulate hormone production which can interfere or alter your cycle and worrying about it can stop a period altogether.

As long as he is clear of STI's his semen is unlikely to be harmful to you unless you have a rare intolerance to it and rinsing with water will be quite sufficient.

Next time he should was his hands to be sure and for extra peace of mind.

Good luck!
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