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To vent..OK I have been livin with my mom and stepdad for 2 months. Well now my step sister has moved in.. and they act as if she is different from me. She has two kids.. and now she is thinkin she is pregnant again.. she has not had her period and is like 3 or four days late. Her and her husband are living with our parents and neither one of them are working. HEr lazy as husband won't get up and work.. and she is trying to get him to join the army.. that is what she is hoping for and I think the only reason she married him.. he won't get up and help her do anything around the house or most of the time with the baby and when he does he !**@!.. They walk in my room with out knocking.. I feel as if she is trying to take all my spotlight.. it is my first baby.. and I was supposed to be having a wedding shower.. but.. I am supposed to put mine off so that she can have hers. I am really not happy bout it.. maybe I am just being selfish.. but.. it was my turn to have a little spotlight.. My parents were actually being nice.. for the first time in a year. We were actually getting along.. and I was having time with my mom to myself for the first time in 17 years.. I was not having to share her with no one.. and now.. I have to.. maybe I am being selfish...but .. with neither of them working how do they expect to take care of a third child.. when... her mother is taking care of her oldest? I don't know.. I just guess.. I am jealous.
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replied March 19th, 2008
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you're going to be a mother, it's time to grow up. you can't keep being the baby when you're about to have one.
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replied March 19th, 2008
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You were getting a wedding shower? I didn't think you were with your bf anymore...

Why one earth would you be jealous of your sister? She has no job, her bf/fiancee (?) has no job, they live with your parents and may be having another child. That is no life to be jealous of, if anything it should be a beacon of what not to do!
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replied March 19th, 2008
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Isn't venting fun?!? I kinda know how you feel about worthless people... my sister and her boyfriend were living with my mom, and it was just horrible.

I'd be mad too if I had plans and my MOM changed them to accommodate my sister. That's playing favorites IMO.

Thanks for venting, that's what we're here for! Very Happy
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replied March 19th, 2008
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[quote="Ingi"]You were getting a wedding shower? I didn't think you were with your bf anymore...

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My childs father and I are getting married.. I posted about it all the other day.
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replied March 20th, 2008
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Lilly Ivy wrote:
Isn't venting fun?!? I kinda know how you feel about worthless people... my sister and her boyfriend were living with my mom, and it was just horrible.

I'd be mad too if I had plans and my MOM changed them to accommodate my sister. That's playing favorites IMO.

Thanks for venting, that's what we're here for! Very Happy


I soooo agree!
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replied March 20th, 2008
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[quote="Ilovejulietannafaye"]
Ingi wrote:
You were getting a wedding shower? I didn't think you were with your bf anymore...

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My childs father and I are getting married.. I posted about it all the other day.


Congrats, I must have missed that.
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replied March 20th, 2008
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http://ehealthforum.com/health/hey-t133299 -a1.html

I hope things get better. There really isn't much you can do. . .
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replied March 20th, 2008
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I can say I know how you feel but just like I have gotten used to it over the years...you should already be used to it also. Im not saying its fair because its not, but life isnt always fair and like "killbill" said you are going to have a kid yourself so all you can do is forget about it becuase it only makes you stronger, and a better mother becuase you wont treat your children different becuase you know how it feels when your parents play favorites.
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