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is the method proper for conceiving baby? Or its wrong?

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Dr please help me as early as possible.M 28 yrs old married woman and now we are planning for baby. From the last 4 months we'r trying but m unable to conceive. From the last 2 months we'r making out in a calculative way i,e evry other day but no result. M eager to ask for ur help regarding the process of intercoursing.When we two became tired den my husband after sometime from outside masturbate and when he feels like sperms are coming out den at the very moment he inserts his penis inside me and den he ejaculates. WE make sure dat the sperms get inside me properly.After dat I took rest for sometime.So, is the method proper for conceiving baby? Or its a wrong way? Please suggest me with the proper method. Please do help me as early as possible.Waiting for ur suggestion.

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replied October 1st, 2013
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Female orgasm is also important as during the intercourse the cervix mouth (external os opens up and if semen is deposited high up, then it is easier for sperms to swim upward inside uterus and fertilize the egg. On an average, women get pregnant within 3-4 months of trying, hence, if you have not been successful in your pregnancy plans within 6 months to 1 year of trying, you should consider visiting your doctor/gynecologist to get a complete infertility work-up done for you and your partner to see if there are any underlying causes for the infertility/inability to conceive. Hormonal derangements, problems involving ovaries and ovulation, uterine problems, tubal blocks, cervical or vaginal infections, ovarian failure/suppression, LPD, etc., should be ruled out for you. For your partner, semen analysis should be done to rule out infections and to confirm the quality and quantity of sperms produced, as well as rule out other factors that can affect sperm morphology and motility (especially rule out acrosomal protein defect if all other parameters are normal). Treatment as needed (based on examination and investigations results) would be started to help you get pregnant. Consider visiting your gynecologist/obstetrician for further evaluation and assistance and be in regular follow-up and monitoring as instructed. Have diet with foods rich in zinc content to ensure better maturation of egg and sperms. Monitor cervical mucus changes and the BBT (basal body temperature) charting to predict your ovulation and time your intercourse for having fruitful results. Have intercourse in positions that allow for deeper penetration for high deposit of semen. Do not change positions immediately after ejaculation, put pillows under buttocks to minimize semen spill, and avoid getting up within 30 minutes of ejaculation. Have diet with foods rich in zinc content to ensure better maturation of egg and sperms. Be in regular monitoring and follow-up with your treating doctor/gynecologist and report any new/abnormal symptoms immediately.
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