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im bipolar, my boyfriend dumped two days after i had an abortion

I heartbreaker LOVED MY BOYFRIEND VERYYYY MUCH SOOOO. we had been together 3 1/2 months. when he dumped me. I have bipolar, and paranoia. so the relationship was always a bit strained with my constant downs, and ups, and constantly wondering what my boyfriend was up too (cheating on me or not). in a way i it was my fault for being the way i am and taking it out on him too much. Well anways i fell pregnant bout 2 months into our relationship. Was gonna keep it cause i dont believe in abortions, but he didnt. I loved him ,and still love him more than hell ever know. So i took the chance, and at seven weeks got an abortion to sort his life out Rolling Eyes . BIG MISTAKE!! two days later he dumps me, saying he cant deal with my depression or paranoia anymore, BY TEXT!!! i feel so hollow and twisted inside. i just want him back, hes the biggest love of my life.
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replied March 11th, 2009
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I'm sorry to hear you were treated badly.
I know you love him. He's not a keeper. Honestly, if he were really in your corner, he wouldn't have took off so abruptly. I'm sorry you have to go through that loss, and the feelings related to the abortion. I hope you have some support from family and friends. Sometimes, we don't really know someone until the chips are down. You shouldn't blame yourself. If he was a more upfront person, he wouldn't have suddenly left, especially after you just went through a tough experience. I wish you happiness in the near future.
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replied March 13th, 2009
Hey,i know how you feel...i had a bf for 2years and i fell pregnant.he wanted me to get an abortion...like you i didnt believe in it,but i did have a miscarriage at 6 and a half wks.he never spoke to me again...only now a year later hes getting around.like u,i blamed myself and swore i loved him.take it from me..this man is not worth it,i know its hard but you need to stick it out.i still care about my ex sure but i can see that he was never going to change or care the way i did or wanted him to...and i would never go back.this man made u give up something precious.u deserve to be treated well and do u think this guy loved u as much as u loved him?i dont want to be harsh but sometimes we need to hear it like it is.find a hobby meet new people.i promise it will get better:)good luck
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