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I feel uncomfortable being on top?

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How do I avoid having sex on top? I'm very unexperienced by only having sex with one guy once, while my boyfriend has had a lot of ex-lovers. I feel uncomfortable?? I don't know how to ease into that topic or just avoid on top sex positions at all. I don't know how to go the pace he wants, let alone how to move? I feel like such a noob ><
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replied November 3rd, 2011
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Hi BreepBreep and welcome to ehealth: Being on top is more of a bold sexual position...IMO, a woman must feel very comfortable about herself to do it...From my experience in life I can tell you that your time will come...Until that time don't push yourself...Find that inner woman within you that is willing to roam...Then and only then, take the plunge...Honey, Rome was not built in a day, nor was the confidence and venturesome part of a woman...Relax and enjoy, you will be great...Take care...

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