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I don't know what else to do, it's the only way I get calm

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When I get really angry I cut, it's the only way I get calm again since all my attention is on it.

My mother was shouting again today at me, at anything that pissed her off. She threw a cup of coffee for some reason then brushes it all off as menopause. I long to just tell her to shut up but I can't it would be the end of the world. So I cut it's the only thing I have control over. Ive tried to meditate and all that, but while I'm doing it trying to calm down I hear her in the background going on and on and on. It's getting worse and the cuts are more and more I want to stop but I cant
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replied March 8th, 2014
People say cutting is like an addiction. It is very hard, maybe try some therapy or tell your mother to shut up in a nicer way. If she blames it at the menopause, tell her to get some pills for it. I understand cutting is very hard to stop because I do it myself. But I would maybe talk to a school guidance counselor or just a really close friend who will listen. Cutting yourself can lead to infections and other issues, I have never gotten my cuts infected, but I'm not 100% sure, but scars like that on your arm can affect how you get a job here where I live.
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