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how could you trust someone again

im havin trust issues wit my boyfriend we went out for about 9 month and broke up bcus he lied to me so many times and i found out that he was willing to cheat on me wit sum chick. we got back together after 2 months and we been together like 3 months already...i went to see him last month (he lives really far like really far)and we had a great time wen i see himin person i feel good not worry and scared that his goin to lie to me or cheat on me or talk to sum otha girl.but wen i was ova dere...i decided to check his comp i waited to he went to sleep and i found sum pics of girls almost naked. and then i went to yahoo andhe had remember pass. so i ws really happy i was like yayyyy i could go to his emaill and den wen i got dere i saw dat sum girl had send him naked pics. i was so madd...and i check wat he wrote and he wrote i didnt get dem i was like ughhh..but dats the only thing he had. i check eveything...and i found otha stuff i didnt know dat he did when i was wit him last time...(he done so much bad things he done me so wrong i could tell u everything he done to me and details and stuff but its 2 long...so now is so hard to trust him..he always tells me tha samething im sorry i wont do it again bla bla bla ...i just dont trust him no more..but i do want to work thigns out i know im stupid..but how can i trust him again =(..i get really frustrated and scared...alll that time...what can i do.
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replied June 3rd, 2010
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Trust is fundamental in a relationship, I think its pretty clear you need to end this relationship, not only is it harmful to you, what if you got an std? If the pictures of the girls he had naked pictures of is under the age of 18 its considered child porn nowadays, it would be best if this is the case that you completely avoid or risk being prosecuted as well.

Look at it as a new beginning for yourself, take what you learned and apply it to the next relationship you have, seriously there is good people out there you just need to be yourself.
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replied June 3rd, 2010
is hard to leave a person wen u lost ur virginity wit dat person.
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replied March 15th, 2011
haveing been the guy that messed up the trust in my relationship pehaps i can help i think what you need to do is shock him ...sadly it worked on me but i ran out of time shes got with someone else sigh * but back to you what realy sorted me out was when she cut off contact ..and would not talk again ..drop him a hint that hes got to prove that hes trust worthy and then ..no contact for 4 weeks ..he will go nuts ..i know i am atm ..he will wail cry try to get you to take him back but it hurts hun like hell but bear with it ..hes got to know this is the last chance saloon here ...only when hes taken mesures you find ok then pull him back to you ...mabey it will work for you and help save your relationship gl
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