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have not had sex but have messed around ?

I have not had sex but with have mess around. When he ejculated it was not near me. Idk, it could have been. He cleans himself up. We did not do anything other than hand-job and fingering. I am concerned This happended between the 23-27th of Nov. I had been feeling strange since then. It is now Dec the 4th. It's been a week. I felt strange all week .Preganant? On Dec the 2nd I started bleeding very heavily. For Two days now. I think it's starting to stop. While this was happening. I have really BAD Cramps. BAD. Now being Dec the 4th I think the bleeding is stopping but I am not sure. Could I be preganant? I plan to take a pregnancy test on Dec the 12th or 13th. Is that too soon? What do you think?
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replied December 7th, 2011
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If you had semen or pre-cum coming in contact with vagina (during genital contact or fingering), then chances of pregnancy could be possible. Wait and watch for your next periods. If pregnancy is suspected, look out for development of any other new symptoms suggestive of pregnancy. If periods do not start within 10 days of expected period dates, or if you get abnormal periods, or if you suspect chances of pregnancy, consider visiting your doctor/gynecologist at the earliest for thorough examination (to confirm pregnancy related changes/signs in body) and blood/serum HCG level test (to confirm/rule out pregnancy accurately). If pregnancy gets ruled out, and if you are not ready for pregnancy, but intend to remain sexually active, you should consider visiting your gynecologist to get started on suitable regular birth control measures to be protected (after your periods) as well as regulate your periods. Be regular with birth control use as instructed. Avoid having unprotected sexual contact. Be in regular monitoring and follow-up with your treating doctor/gynecologist and report any new/abnormal symptoms immediately. Take adequate rest. Drink plenty of water. Maintain healthy diet.
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