I was in a relation from past 8years. Off lately things were not working out between my boy friend and me because of professional jealousy and his irresponsible nature. I had to move on for a better life but he wouldnt let me go out. Finally when my parents looked out for an alliance i agreed to it thinking that my marriage would be the best choice to move on. But at no point could i tell this insecure guy that i opted to move out because that would disturb him and make him aggressive and abusive. Now he is forcing me to continue my relation after the wedding which i do not want to do. My to-be hubby is very caring and a good person and i do not want to cheat on him. How do i get rid of this ex-boyfriend? My problem to disconnect from him completely is because we have common working groups.