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Feelings so alone and my heart is so hurt..

Having a really hard time lately and struggling to stay healthy and happy for the baby.. I'm currently 13 weeks.. I found out at 5 weeks and my boyfriend of 3 years had broken up with me a 2 weeks before finding out, and not talking what so ever those two weeks it was awkward dropping the bomb... He still doesn't wanna be together but says he wants to be here for the baby?? I grew up with divorced parents and have struggled my whole life... Never what I imagined for my kids, and my heart is so hurt..
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replied July 11th, 2015
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Easy, you ned to be more careful now. U're not alone, even ur divorced parents could help and understand what u are going thru now. Also Proverbs 3.5-7 for you here.
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replied July 11th, 2015
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Eh, sympathy for your tough situation. I hope the break-up was not caused by the emotional upheaval a woman experiences from pregnancy hormones. It is very encouraging that he wants to be there for the baby. Play it like you are cool with the split and are happy with the occasional dinner out just to keep in touch and stay friends. No pressure. Much later ask the big favor that he be present at delivery time, to be there for the baby and for you. A lot can change between now and January.
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replied September 30th, 2019
Thank you for asking at Ehealth forum!

I read your question and i understand your concern.If he leaved you, then he would be the most unlucky person. Don't bother.. Stress more on the happiness of mother hood you would have after having your baby.. Take strict control of your diet and surround yourself with your loved ones.And be happy to have healthy baby.


I hope it helps. Stay in touch with your healthcare provider for further guidance as our answers are just for education and counselling purposes and cannot be an alternative to actual visit to a doctor.
Take care
Khan
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