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feel i got neglected from the world itself.

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Hi doctor,

My name is chithra,i worked in a mnc for six months.i made a mistake in my job which result in a loss to the company from this onwards,i face a neglecting attitude from my team mates no one wish to me but every day i will talk to them but they dont even smile to me.after the mistake, i got stammering for which i got treatment and cured almost few years back.now i got stammering back,lack confidence in talking to people.which led to quit the job from that office.now i feel guilty conscious that i made mistake to the company and create a bad impression to the team.now i quit the job and i am searching for a new job but i cant able to find a job for past 6 months.i feel i got neglected from the world itself.my team mates told that they lost bonus,increment because of the mistake this hurt me a lot at that time.but now they got bonus increment.except my parents everyone questioning why i left the job?but i got hurt by all these things.please gave some advice....


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replied August 12th, 2012
Depression Answer A37953
Hello,

Welcome to ehealthforum and thanks for writing

I am sorry to hear about you but these things as mistakes in job and switching to new one are common and person learns form the mistakes only.This is what is called experience. Do not be stressed as it can cause psychological issues. There is nothing to be ashamed of and consider this as one phase of life which went off. These things are part and parcel of life and you do not need to give explaination to everyone.

A capable person as you will definitely get a new job sooner or later. Just keep on applying for other ones and try to forget the incident.You are quite young and have a long way to go. Relax for sometime and start job hunting.Avoid talking to people concerned with the previous company and spend time doing some things which you are fond of as music,swimming,gardening etc.

Take care!


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