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do you think i have ocd

hello
Im 30 years old so i been going out with my GF for like 5 mouths. And my thoughs and my feeling are make me push her away i cant control my mind sometime i can control and stop but then come back i geel guilty. And its happend to me in pass with previously GF and i always think " maybe she not the one" I always end up break it off and later on i start miss her i miss her voice. This one think i hate dating i start getting bad thoughs.I read so many articles i cant handle anymore. So please help
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replied January 26th, 2012
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I do not see any connection between what you write and OCD at all. Maybe if you write more.....

You state plainly you don't like the one you see now. So, stop and wait for the right person.

What bad thoughts do you get?

Are you sure you are interested in girls at all, you could be wanting a WOMAN, mature and not stupid? Maybe you just aren't ready for a relationship at all. It's not a big deal having a relationship and if it's bad then dispose of it. Stop searching and just live, they will arrive, always do. Often as friends only initially.

Don't rush, 30 is not old.

Nothing OCD in your words, nothing. Just confused about girls. Hell, I have had 4 long term live in partners, one ex wife amongst them, and I still don't understand a thing about them. Don't expect to either.

Best you can do is just be yourself and don't change for anyone as that will destroy you.
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replied January 26th, 2012
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I do not see any connection between what you write and OCD at all. Maybe if you write more.....

You state plainly you don't like the one you see now. So, stop and wait for the right person.

What bad thoughts do you get?

Are you sure you are interested in girls at all, you could be wanting a WOMAN, mature and not stupid? Maybe you just aren't ready for a relationship at all. It's not a big deal having a relationship and if it's bad then dispose of it. Stop searching and just live, they will arrive, always do. Often as friends only initially.

Don't rush, 30 is not old.

Nothing OCD in your words, nothing. Just confused about girls. Hell, I have had 4 long term live in partners, one ex wife amongst them, and I still don't understand a thing about them. Don't expect to either.

Best you can do is just be yourself and don't change for anyone as that will destroy you.
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