The odds are in our favor, but my girlfriend is freakin now. So I need some pretty good odds on my side. My gf and I are great students and kids. We love each other very much and only had sex 3 times. Because we were knew i dont think we did it right. We had another situation like this before, but she got her period and everything worked out. After this ordeal is over, we vowed to never have sex until marriage because we are strong Christians, and we kinda got carried away. But here is what happened and what she feels.

I wore a condom (regular one, not thin or anything like that)
I didn't ejaculate at all (i couldn't really feel anything, and we were new)
I cleaned my genitals after a little foreplay to reduce pre-cum.
I didn't break her hymen, I didn't even go in that deep because it hurt her.
There was no slipping or breaking of the condom. (I tested it afterwards)

Here's what she said she feels:

She said her boobs feel bigger
She said she feels fatter
She said she is a week late, but I think she is coming up on her week. It's her body, so I don't know.

She broke her knee last week, and has been under A LOT of stress with like drama and friends and stuff like that and now worrying about this, can this delay periods?

Any information is helpful, just another teen, surfing the internet posting another question here, but really...some peace of mind would be helpful considering it's 5:16am and I can't sleep.
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replied May 2nd, 2010
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First of all, the hymen is NOT located deep in the vagina, it is located at the opening of the vagina. You may not have broken it, but she could have just by daily activities or using tampons.

Secondly, you were wearing a condom and said you did not ejaculate. If you didn't ejaculate and the condom was not broken, then she is most likely NOT pregnant.

Stress can cause a period to come late. So can injury to the body, even a knee injury. Changes in diet and hormone fluctuations can also cause a delayed period. She should stop stressing and if she is really worried, she can take an at-home pregnancy test. Chances are, she is just late due to stress and her injury.
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replied May 2nd, 2010
Thank you, i''ll have her take a look at this. It''ll ease her stress hopefully thank you. I just want her to be happy, really. My only concern is if she is good. Smile
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replied May 2nd, 2010
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If you want to avoid further scares, why not have her invest in some birth control pills for herself? Condoms should still be used, not only for prevention of STDs, but also just in case she misses a pill or is on antibiotics or any other medication that may lessen the effectiveness of her birth control. Just my two cents.
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