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My Boyfriend left me when I told him I was pregnant. I'm only a few weeks, he wants nothing to do with me now but did try forcing me to get a termination. I feel so alone, and don't know what to do.
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replied February 28th, 2011
I am so sorry to hear this. I am in a very similar situation, I am 5 weeks and the man i was with hasn't contacted me from the day i told him. He wanted this, to marry me, build a future together etc but now i'm in utter shock that he lead me down the garden path and then dropped me like this. I tried to send him a text he other day and it looks like he has blocked my number, that has hurt me more than anything. I think that he may be thinking that by doing this and staying away i might abort our baby but this is not the case. I feel like texting him from another number and giving him a peace of my mind but i have too much respect for myself to lower myself to his standard or make him think that i need him. I notice you haven't been on from 5th Feb and hope you are ok. I'm here for you if you need some support. Tkae care of you xx
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replied September 30th, 2019
Thank you for asking at Ehealth forum!

I read your question and i understand your concern.If he is not claiming the baby as him, then it means he wants only a joy and might not be sincere with you even after loosing your baby. You should hear to your inner sense before making any final decision. But be careful next time.

I hope it helps. Stay in touch with your healthcare provider for further guidance as our answers are just for education and counselling purposes and cannot be an alternative to actual visit to a doctor.
Take care
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