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all the sperm comes out and its very messing?

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im 41 have 5 children already... my boyfriend and I want a child together it will be his first Im have notice that everytime we have sex and he finishes his deed all the sperm comes out and its very messing. this never happened when I was younger should I be concern??? pls help

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replied October 20th, 2011
Getting Pregnant Answer A27912
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Possibility of vaginal laxity or loss of vaginal and pelvic muscle tone cannot be ruled out. Advanced maternal age also affects the fertility levels. Monitor cervical mucus changes and the BBT (basal body temperature) charting to predict your ovulation and time your intercourse for having fruitful results. Keep lying still for sometime after intercourse (do not change positions after ejaculation has occurred). Put pillows under buttocks to minimize spill. Have intercourse in positions that allow for deeper penetration for high deposit of semen. If you are not being successful with your pregnancy plans, consider going ahead with getting infertility work-up done for you and your partner to see if there are any underlying causes for the infertility/inability to conceive. Treatment as needed (based on examination and investigations results) would be started to help you get pregnant. Be in regular monitoring and follow-up with your treating gynecologist and report any unusual symptoms immediately.
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