sometime in the summer i was dating this guy and he had told me he had plans of going into the marines. he was leaving November and on at the end of September i found out i had just conceived although Ive taken the morning after pill. i told him and he cant cope with this and the stress he is having in his life. it sounds like he tries to change my mind about the baby but i plan on keeping it.
what are the consequences of going into the marines and having the baby on the way ? or if he lies and says he doesn't, how would that affect him?
when i reach 2nd trimester with this child he will be already gone so I'd also like to know what things should a mother have and be ready for when having the baby?
First off, he is going to want a DNA test to make sure it is HIS. If so, he should at least pay child support. Do not try to tie him down and force him to marry you, it won't work. Give him space, and hopefully he will do the right thing and support his baby. All the best. Stay healthy and depend on nobody. You will have to work harder, but you can do it. No reason to let one baby allow yourself to get fat and out of shape either. YOUR BODY IS YOUR TICKET, so take good care. Hope this helps! Take care!
d best ansa u cud get here is to ask a doctor..bt 4mi i wud say he bein a marine his goin to be far away 4m u. But d baby goin to b lik his father in karata wether he be a male or a female. Nw 4d guy its neva gona afet him pyschologically but positivly aslong as he love u. U jst kep in touch wit him and always tel him hw d baby is faring its strength for him. Im a naval oficer in nigeria so i knw hw it is.